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S.H.A.P.E. Assessment Results

Thank you Rhonie Black for taking the SHAPE Assessment. We encourage you to meet with a Church Leader that you respect, to go over your results, so that they can help you discover a place to serve in the church and/or community, and also to help you fine-tune your 5 Main Focuses/Priorities listed at the bottom of this email under the ‘Wrapping it up’ section. May God Bless You!

[S]piritual Gifts

Here is how your spiritual gifts scored:

Administration

87%

Evangelism

68%

Exhortation/Encouragement

78%

Giving

68%

Mercy Showing

71%

Prophecy

46%

Pastoring/Shepherding

40%

Serving

59%

Teaching

84%

To see descriptions on the Spiritual Gifts and how you can use them to further Christ’s Kingdom on earth, visit this link.

#1 Gift, Administration (87%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I helped start a multicultural urban church in Waterbury, Connecticut and served as a home missionary with the Baptist Convention of New England for 25 years. I was a clinical director for several behavioral health care programs in Connecticut.

#2 Gift, Teaching (84%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I have experience teaching adult Sunday School for 25 years and leading women’s ministry for 25 years. I also facilitated lectures for the Alzheimer’s Association in Connecticut. I currently help my husband teach Sunday School for 3rd-5th graders every 6 weeks.

#3 Gift, Exhortation/Encouragement (78%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I was able to disciple new Christians in Connecticut. I also encourage my psychotherapy clients to learn skills to help them improve their lives.

[H]eart

Three things I love to do that bring joy and fulfillment in my life:

1. I love providing psychotherapy services for my clients at Masterpeace Counseling Center in Tecumseh, MI.

2. I love visiting with older adults.

3. I love playing with my Bichon Frise puppy and spending time with my husband looking for antiques.

Who I love to work with most, and the age or type of people:

I enjoy working with adults (all ages) and older adults ages 75-100!

Church issues, ministries, or possible needs that excite or concern me the most:

I enjoy women’s ministry and Bible study groups. I do miss being a part of an adult Sunday School class. I love international missions. I was a 2 year missionary in Brazil after I graduated college prior to attending seminary for my MSW/Theology degree.

*Mark the Top 3 from the list, that Trigger a Passion in You

Marriage/family issues
Educational
Other – International missions. Enjoy learning about other cultures and traveling.

[A]bilities

My current vocation:

I’m a licensed clinical social worker (MSW) and I provide individual and family psychotherapy at the Masterpeace Counseling Center in Tecumseh, MI.

Other jobs I have experience in:

EAP Director/Therapist, Mental Health therapist for the Air Force, Therapist for a School of Nursing,Community Mental Health Therapist, Substance Abuse Clinician, Psychotherapist for convalescent homes, Integrative Behavioral Health Clinician for Internal Medicine and Family Practice Physicians. Psychotherapy Group Clinician, Home Missionary in Connecticut and International Missionary in Brazil.

Special talents/skills that I have:

Speak Portuguese.
Experience leading small groups.

I have taught a class or seminar on:

Alzheimer’s and Dementia,
Depression,
Anxiety,
Schizophrenia,
Anger Management
Interpersonal Communication

I feel my most valuable personal asset is:

discernment, maturity and sense of humor

[P]ersonality

The personality traits that best fit me are:

Extrovert

Low Risk

Challenger

People Driven

Leader

Team

Variety

1. 2 Likes Control 4 Enthusiastic 3 Sensitive 1 Reserved
2. 3 Firm 2 Energetic 1 Non-Demanding 4 Practical
3. 4 Likes Challenge 2 Promoter 1 Enjoys Routine 3 Factual
4. 4 Problem Solver 2 Mixes Easily 3 Relational 1 Perfectionistic
5. 2 Bold 4 Fun-Loving 1 Thoughtful 3 Detailed
6. 4 Goal Driven 2 Optimistic 1 Patient 3 Inquisitive
7. 1 Strong Willed 3 Motivator 4 Good Listener 2 Accurate
8. 3 Takes Charge 4 Very Verbal 2 Loyal 1 Predictable
9. 4 Determined 2 Popular 1 Dislikes Change 3 Orderly
10. 2 Competitive 3 Group Oriented 1 Sympathetic 4 Analytical
11. 4 Purposeful 1 Inspirational 2 Nurturing 3 Precise
12. 3 Action Oriented 4 Likes Change 1 Peace Maker 2 Scheduled
36 Total 33 Total 21 Total 30 Total

Your Primary was ‘The Lion’, with your Secondary coming in as ‘The Otter’, and here are the descriptions of your Personalities, and how they can be used for God

Lion- This personality likes to lead. The lion is good at making decisions and is very goal-oriented. They enjoy challenges, difficult assignments, and opportunity for advancement. Because lions are thinking of the goal, they can step on people to reach it. Lions can be very aggressive and competitive. Lions must learn not to be too bossy or to take charge in other’s affairs.

Strength: Goal-oriented, strong, direct
Weakness: Argumentative, too dictatorial
Limitation: Doesn’t understand that directness can hurt others, hard time expressing grace

Otter- Otters are very social creature. Otter personalities love people. They enjoys being popular and influencing and motivating others. Otter can sometimes be hurt when people do not like them. Otter personalities usually have lots of friends, but not deep relationships. They love to goof-off. (They are notorious for messy rooms.) Otters like to hurry and finish jobs. (Jobs are not often done well.) The otter personality is like Tigger in Winnie The Pooh.

Strength: People person, open, positive
Weakness: Talks too much, too permissive
Limitation: Remembering past commitments, follow through with discipline

[E]xperience

My brief testimony of how I became a Christian

I grew up in church and accepted Christ as my personal savior at age 11. At age 15, I felt called to the ministry and made that decision public in my home church. I went to a baptist affiliated college and post graduation I served a 2 year missionary term in Brazil and then entered The Baptist Theological Seminary in 1985-1988 and got my MSW/Theology degree.

Ministry Experience (Where I have served in the past, if applicable, including ChurchName, City/State, Position, Years Involved):

Missionary in Natal,Brazil from 1982-1984. Social service worker in a Brazilian Baptist community agency and taught missionary children ages 13,12, 8 and 10.

Missionary for the Home Mission Board serving The New England Baptist Convention in Waterbury, Connecticut from 1988-2006. Served on various committees for the Western Connecticut Baptist Association and the New England Baptist Convention.

Helped start a multicultural urban church in Waterbury, Connecticut from 1991-2013. Adult Sunday School teacher, Women’s Ministry leader/teacher, pre-school teacher, Small Group leader.

List 3 Positive experiences from the past that made a big impact on who you are today:

Missionary to Brazil.

Opportunity to travel to Italy, England, Canada, Greece,Jamaica and Brazil.

Served as a short term missionary to Greece teaching leaders at an adolescent camp how to lead small groups. Worked with a christian psychiatrist in Greece.

List 3 Negative Experiences from your past that have helped to Shape me, but also have given you great compassion for others going through similar circumstances:

Father was an alcoholic and mother had Schizophrenia. Father is in recovery now and mother is deceased x 5 yrs.

Divorced husband that served as a pastor. Ministerial friends and their spouses shunned me.

Grew up in a small town that was very judgmental re mental health issues.

Wrapping It Up

The Challenge: Based upon your S.H.A.P.E. Assessment above (the way God wired you), If you knew you couldn’t fail … and ‘lack of money, or time’ was not an obstacle… list your Top 3 Things you would ‘Focus’ your Life on, next to #1 Loving God & #2 Loving Your Neighbor (these would be your ‘3 God-Sized Dreams’ for your life)?

1. My Relationship with GOD

2. My Relationship with Others

  • Putting Your Spouse First
  • Your Kids Second
  • Everyone Else After those

3. Go on International mission trips

4. Lead conferences for ministers and their spouses to enhance relationships.

5. Find a local ministry and volunteer weekly. I’m new to the area and still researching possibilities.