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S.H.A.P.E. Assessment Results

Thank you Candice melton for taking the SHAPE Assessment. We encourage you to meet with a Church Leader that you respect, to go over your results, so that they can help you discover a place to serve in the church and/or community, and also to help you fine-tune your 5 Main Focuses/Priorities listed at the bottom of this email under the ‘Wrapping it up’ section. May God Bless You!

[S]piritual Gifts

Here is how your spiritual gifts scored (in alphabetical order):

Administration

53%

Evangelism

100%

Exhortation/Encouragement

96%

Giving

37%

Mercy Showing

56%

Prophecy

81%

Pastoring/Shepherding

75%

Serving

18%

Teaching

93%

To see descriptions on the Spiritual Gifts and how you can use them to further Christ’s Kingdom on earth, visit this link.

#1 Gift, Evangelism (100%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I am a therapist and experienced
Daily how God is the healer..not me.

#2 Gift, Exhortation/Encouragement (96%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
Use of Gods grace and mercy.

#3 Gift, Teaching (93%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
Seminary study and Bible Study Fellowship.

[H]eart

Three things I love to do that bring joy and fulfillment in my life:

1. Teach people about Jesus.

2. See people change.

3. Fellowship

Who I love to work with most, and the age or type of people:

Those who come to therapy and are open to surrender.

Church issues, ministries, or possible needs that excite or concern me the most:

I am. 73 and because of my age I’m concerned for my clients not knowing eternity and deliverance that can give them joy now.

*Mark the Top 3 from the list, that Trigger a Passion in You

Homelessness
Marriage/family issues
Parenting

[A]bilities

My current vocation:

Marriage family therapist

Other jobs I have experience in:

Skating coach,k-8 teacher, therapist

Special talents/skills that I have:

Making the Bible understandable through teaching a Relationship first and then Gods work. Difference between religion and spirituality. Grace over law

I have taught a class or seminar on:

Boundaries, safe people, search for significance, counseling, parenting, divorce recovery.

I feel my most valuable personal asset is:

To teach Gods grace.

[P]ersonality

The personality traits that best fit me are:

Extrovert

High Risk

50-50 Peace Maker/Challenger

People Driven

Leader

Team

Variety

1. 4 Likes Control 3 Enthusiastic 2 Sensitive 1 Reserved
2. 4 Firm 2 Energetic 3 Non-Demanding 1 Practical
3. 4 Likes Challenge 3 Promoter 1 Enjoys Routine 2 Factual
4. 4 Problem Solver 1 Mixes Easily 2 Relational 3 Perfectionistic
5. 3 Bold 1 Fun-Loving 4 Thoughtful 2 Detailed
6. 1 Goal Driven 4 Optimistic 2 Patient 3 Inquisitive
7. 3 Strong Willed 4 Motivator 1 Good Listener 2 Accurate
8. 4 Takes Charge 3 Very Verbal 2 Loyal 1 Predictable
9. 1 Determined 1 Popular 1 Dislikes Change 1 Orderly
10. 2 Competitive 3 Group Oriented 1 Sympathetic 4 Analytical
11. 3 Purposeful 4 Inspirational 1 Nurturing 2 Precise
12. 3 Action Oriented 2 Likes Change 4 Peace Maker 1 Scheduled
36 Total 30 Total 24 Total 23 Total

Your Primary was ‘The Lion’, with your Secondary coming in as ‘The Otter’, and here are the descriptions of your Personalities, and how they can be used for God

Lion- This personality likes to lead. The lion is good at making decisions and is very goal-oriented. They enjoy challenges, difficult assignments, and opportunity for advancement. Because lions are thinking of the goal, they can step on people to reach it. Lions can be very aggressive and competitive. Lions must learn not to be too bossy or to take charge in other’s affairs.

Strength: Goal-oriented, strong, direct
Weakness: Argumentative, too dictatorial
Limitation: Doesn’t understand that directness can hurt others, hard time expressing grace

Otter- Otters are very social creature. Otter personalities love people. They enjoys being popular and influencing and motivating others. Otter can sometimes be hurt when people do not like them. Otter personalities usually have lots of friends, but not deep relationships. They love to goof-off. (They are notorious for messy rooms.) Otters like to hurry and finish jobs. (Jobs are not often done well.) The otter personality is like Tigger in Winnie The Pooh.

Strength: People person, open, positive
Weakness: Talks too much, too permissive
Limitation: Remembering past commitments, follow through with discipline

[E]xperience

My brief testimony of how I became a Christian

Seeking everywhere the meaning of life finally accepting Christ after years of Bible Study Fellowship .

Ministry Experience (Where I have served in the past, if applicable, including ChurchName, City/State, Position, Years Involved):

Children’s ministry, teaching adult ministries, lay counseling team leading small groups.

Quail lake Baptist

35 yrsc

List 3 Positive experiences from the past that made a big impact on who you are today:

Having nonjudgmental Christians in my life

Champion skater

Passing the LMFT test after a huge trial.

List 3 Negative Experiences from your past that have helped to Shape me, but also have given you great compassion for others going through similar circumstances:

Sexual abuse

Depression

Alcohol addicted and divorce

Wrapping It Up

The Challenge: Based upon your S.H.A.P.E. Assessment above (the way God wired you), If you knew you couldn’t fail … and ‘lack of money, or time’ was not an obstacle… list your Top 3 Things you would ‘Focus’ your Life on, next to #1 Loving God & #2 Loving Your Neighbor (these would be your ‘3 God-Sized Dreams’ for your life)?

1. My Relationship with GOD

2. My Relationship with Others

  • Putting Your Spouse First
  • Your Kids Second
  • Everyone Else After those

3. To start a spiritual group at my therapy hospital.

4. To teach about seasons of life

5. To be a Godly model for my famiy