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S.H.A.P.E. Assessment Results

Thank you Connie Stucker for taking the SHAPE Assessment. We encourage you to meet with a Church Leader that you respect, to go over your results, so that they can help you discover a place to serve in the church and/or community, and also to help you fine-tune your 5 Main Focuses/Priorities listed at the bottom of this email under the ‘Wrapping it up’ section. May God Bless You!

[S]piritual Gifts

Here is how your spiritual gifts scored (in alphabetical order):

Administration

43%

Evangelism

40%

Exhortation/Encouragement

46%

Giving

53%

Mercy Showing

37%

Prophecy

56%

Pastoring/Shepherding

40%

Serving

56%

Teaching

84%

To see descriptions on the Spiritual Gifts and how you can use them to further Christ’s Kingdom on earth, visit this link.

#1 Gift, Teaching (84%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I enjoy personal Bible study; seeking deeper understanding of Scripture. I enjoy being able to stand in front of a group and deliver a lesson.

#2 Gift, Prophecy (56%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I’m not sure I completely understand this gift. It’s not one I expected.

#3 Gift, Serving (56%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I am willing to take on responsibilities behind the scenes to support others.

[H]eart

Three things I love to do that bring joy and fulfillment in my life:

1. Read God’s word and write; participate in women’s Bible Studies.

2. Bicycling.

3. Teaching high school students ASL.

Who I love to work with most, and the age or type of people:

Women – any age but probably closer to my age; high schoolers

Church issues, ministries, or possible needs that excite or concern me the most:

Women’s Bible Studies

*Mark the Top 3 from the list, that Trigger a Passion in You

Spiritual laziness
Educational
Health/fitness

[A]bilities

My current vocation:

Teaching high school American Sign Language

Other jobs I have experience in:

Interpreting for the Deaf; secretarial; caregiver at a crisis pregnancy center

Special talents/skills that I have:

Somewhat fluent in ASL; sewing

I have taught a class or seminar on:

Women’s Bible Studies (leader, not teacher); post-abortion care; ASL

I feel my most valuable personal asset is:

Academic ability to read and analyze

[P]ersonality

The personality traits that best fit me are:

Reserved

Low Risk

Challenger

People Driven

50-50 Follower/Leader

Solo

Routine

1. 4 Likes Control 2 Enthusiastic 1 Sensitive 3 Reserved
2. 4 Firm 2 Energetic 1 Non-Demanding 3 Practical
3. 2 Likes Challenge 1 Promoter 4 Enjoys Routine 3 Factual
4. 3 Problem Solver 1 Mixes Easily 2 Relational 4 Perfectionistic
5. 1 Bold 2 Fun-Loving 4 Thoughtful 3 Detailed
6. 4 Goal Driven 1 Optimistic 2 Patient 3 Inquisitive
7. 3 Strong Willed 1 Motivator 4 Good Listener 2 Accurate
8. 2 Takes Charge 1 Very Verbal 4 Loyal 3 Predictable
9. 3 Determined 1 Popular 4 Dislikes Change 2 Orderly
10. 3 Competitive 1 Group Oriented 2 Sympathetic 4 Analytical
11. 4 Purposeful 2 Inspirational 1 Nurturing 3 Precise
12. 2 Action Oriented 1 Likes Change 3 Peace Maker 4 Scheduled
35 Total 16 Total 32 Total 37 Total

Your Primary was ‘The Beaver’, with your Secondary coming in as ‘The Lion’, and here are the descriptions of your Personalities, and how they can be used for God

Beaver- Organized. Beavers think that there is a right way to do everything and they want to do it exactly that way. Beaver personalities are very creative. They desire to solve everything. Desire to take their time and do it right. Beavers do not like sudden changes. They need reassurance.

Strength: High standards, order, respect
Weakness: Unrealistic expectations of self & others, too perfect.
Limitation: Seeing the optimistic side of things, expressing flexibility

Lion- This personality likes to lead. The lion is good at making decisions and is very goal-oriented. They enjoy challenges, difficult assignments, and opportunity for advancement. Because lions are thinking of the goal, they can step on people to reach it. Lions can be very aggressive and competitive. Lions must learn not to be too bossy or to take charge in other’s affairs.

Strength: Goal-oriented, strong, direct
Weakness: Argumentative, too dictatorial
Limitation: Doesn’t understand that directness can hurt others, hard time expressing grace

[E]xperience

My brief testimony of how I became a Christian

I had two small children and was frustrated in my marriage. Looking for answers I sought out Christian books. When I read one of the prayers to receive Christ I thought, “I’ve done that and it doesn’t work. I can’t be a Christ-like person.” A very strong thought came into my head that said, “Connie, that’s why I died for you.” That was the beginning of my walk with Christ.

Ministry Experience (Where I have served in the past, if applicable, including ChurchName, City/State, Position, Years Involved):

Women’s Bible Study leader at Creative Living Bible Studies in Carmel, Indiana; 1989-1993

Real Choices Crisis Pregnancy Center; 1999-2003ish; Caregiver for clients and post-abortion Bible Study leader

I have taught Sunday School at Carmel United Methodist Church; been involved in VBS; currently I’m involved in the start-up Deaf ministry at Compass

List 3 Positive experiences from the past that made a big impact on who you are today:

I have been married for 42 years.

I have raised three children.

I entered the workforce later in life as a teacher.

List 3 Negative Experiences from your past that have helped to Shape me, but also have given you great compassion for others going through similar circumstances:

Both of my parents and my in-laws, as well as two sister-in-laws passed away within a 3 1/2 year period. Five of the six deaths were completely unexpected.

I have experienced unexpected pregnancies – both my own and my daughter’s.

My family of origin included my Deaf brother. As a family, we did not communicate well.

Wrapping It Up

The Challenge: Based upon your S.H.A.P.E. Assessment above (the way God wired you), If you knew you couldn’t fail … and ‘lack of money, or time’ was not an obstacle… list your Top 3 Things you would ‘Focus’ your Life on, next to #1 Loving God & #2 Loving Your Neighbor (these would be your ‘3 God-Sized Dreams’ for your life)?

1. My Relationship with GOD

2. My Relationship with Others

  • Putting Your Spouse First
  • Your Kids Second
  • Everyone Else After those

3. To write a book that would lead others to Christ and challenge their spiritual walk.

4. To teach women in a Bible study setting.

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