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S.H.A.P.E. Assessment Results

Thank you Debbie Kalinowski for taking the SHAPE Assessment. We encourage you to meet with a Church Leader that you respect, to go over your results, so that they can help you discover a place to serve in the church and/or community, and also to help you fine-tune your 5 Main Focuses/Priorities listed at the bottom of this email under the ‘Wrapping it up’ section. May God Bless You!

[S]piritual Gifts

Here is how your spiritual gifts scored (in alphabetical order):

Administration

15%

Evangelism

53%

Exhortation/Encouragement

65%

Giving

50%

Mercy Showing

65%

Prophecy

43%

Pastoring/Shepherding

46%

Serving

81%

Teaching

59%

To see descriptions on the Spiritual Gifts and how you can use them to further Christ’s Kingdom on earth, visit this link.

#1 Gift, Serving (81%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I love to help others. I’m a CNA by profession & love helping people & being kind to them

#2 Gift, Exhortation/Encouragement (65%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I love to encourage people. It has been my experience, some people just want to be heard not helped

#3 Gift, Mercy Showing (65%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I definitely believe I am merciful most of the time.

[H]eart

Three things I love to do that bring joy and fulfillment in my life:

1. Being a CNA, I love helping people. The older generation has much to teach, and needs kindness, respect understanding and love.

2. Studying God’s word. I love learning more about…..all of it. Also, just being with God is such a joy.

3. Honestly, my dog. I love coming home to her after work or just being out. I’m so grateful & thankful for her.

Who I love to work with most, and the age or type of people:

I love “working” with women of any background. I love the fellowship. I can seriously work with any age group, it just needs to be tailored more individually.

Church issues, ministries, or possible needs that excite or concern me the most:

Bible study excites me & serving the “needy”

*Mark the Top 3 from the list, that Trigger a Passion in You

Educational
At-risk children
Health/fitness

[A]bilities

My current vocation:

CNA

Other jobs I have experience in:

Housekeeping

Special talents/skills that I have:

Compassion, crafting, listening

I have taught a class or seminar on:

Teaching publicly terrifies me.

I feel my most valuable personal asset is:

I guess compassion, listening, helping and relating to others

[P]ersonality

The personality traits that best fit me are:

Reserved

Low Risk

Peace Maker

People Driven

Follower

Solo

50-50 Routine/Variety

1. 1 Likes Control 3 Enthusiastic 4 Sensitive 3 Reserved
2. 2 Firm 3 Energetic 3 Non-Demanding 3 Practical
3. 2 Likes Challenge 1 Promoter 3 Enjoys Routine 3 Factual
4. 2 Problem Solver 2 Mixes Easily 4 Relational 3 Perfectionistic
5. 1 Bold 2 Fun-Loving 4 Thoughtful 3 Detailed
6. 2 Goal Driven 3 Optimistic 3 Patient 3 Inquisitive
7. 2 Strong Willed 3 Motivator 4 Good Listener 3 Accurate
8. 1 Takes Charge 1 Very Verbal 4 Loyal 3 Predictable
9. 3 Determined 2 Popular 2 Dislikes Change 2 Orderly
10. 1 Competitive 1 Group Oriented 4 Sympathetic 2 Analytical
11. 3 Purposeful 2 Inspirational 4 Nurturing 2 Precise
12. 3 Action Oriented 1 Likes Change 4 Peace Maker 3 Scheduled
23 Total 24 Total 43 Total 31 Total

Your Primary was ‘The Retriever’, with your Secondary coming in as ‘The Beaver’, and here are the descriptions of your Personalities, and how they can be used for God

Golden Retriever- Good at making friends. Very loyal. Retriever personalities do not like big changes. They look for security. Can be very sensitive. Very caring. Has deep relationships, but usually only a couple of close friends. Wants to be loved by everyone. Looks for appreciation. Works best in a limited situation with a steady work pattern.

Strength: Accommodating, calm, affirming
Weakness: Indecisive, indifferent, unable to express emotional, too soft on other people
Limitation: Seeing the need to be more assertive, holding others accountable

Beaver- Organized. Beavers think that there is a right way to do everything and they want to do it exactly that way. Beaver personalities are very creative. They desire to solve everything. Desire to take their time and do it right. Beavers do not like sudden changes. They need reassurance.

Strength: High standards, order, respect
Weakness: Unrealistic expectations of self & others, too perfect.
Limitation: Seeing the optimistic side of things, expressing flexibility

[E]xperience

My brief testimony of how I became a Christian

Hindsight, God was softening my heart for about 6 months. I was in a discipleship group & gave my life to Jesus as I did my “home work”

Ministry Experience (Where I have served in the past, if applicable, including ChurchName, City/State, Position, Years Involved):

Nursery, small group leader, Faith Assembly of God Hazleton Pa. maybe for 2 years.

List 3 Positive experiences from the past that made a big impact on who you are today:

My friend Ginger. We have been friends for over 20 years. Next to Jesus she is my best friend. She’s compassionate, has a servants heart & is led by the Spirit.

I would say my growing up. I had a rough childhood but it “made me” compassionate, caring, a good listener, etc.

Moving to Virginia. I believe God “moved me here” it has been healing, given me a new purpose (here is where I became a CNA).

List 3 Negative Experiences from your past that have helped to Shape me, but also have given you great compassion for others going through similar circumstances:

Stated above.

My marriage. It was a tough 25 years. He was not a born again Christian, things slowly got worse after I became born again. It ended with him addicted to porn & having an affair. I definitely have compassion for that struggle.

I have a birth defect that is not noticeable to most people. As a child I felt like I was only that defect. It taught me to love the whole person, to be compassionate.

Wrapping It Up

The Challenge: Based upon your S.H.A.P.E. Assessment above (the way God wired you), If you knew you couldn’t fail … and ‘lack of money, or time’ was not an obstacle… list your Top 3 Things you would ‘Focus’ your Life on, next to #1 Loving God & #2 Loving Your Neighbor (these would be your ‘3 God-Sized Dreams’ for your life)?

1. My Relationship with GOD

2. My Relationship with Others

  • Putting Your Spouse First
  • Your Kids Second
  • Everyone Else After those

3. Be connected with more Christian women.

4. I’d love to be involved in fostering children again.

5. To give myself COMPLETELY to God to do what He wills.