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S.H.A.P.E. Assessment Results

Thank you Delilah Nestor for taking the SHAPE Assessment. We encourage you to meet with a Church Leader that you respect, to go over your results, so that they can help you discover a place to serve in the church and/or community, and also to help you fine-tune your 5 Main Focuses/Priorities listed at the bottom of this email under the ‘Wrapping it up’ section. May God Bless You!

[S]piritual Gifts

Here is how your spiritual gifts scored:

Administration

90%

Evangelism

100%

Exhortation/Encouragement

96%

Giving

96%

Mercy Showing

100%

Prophecy

90%

Pastoring/Shepherding

84%

Serving

84%

Teaching

100%

To see descriptions on the Spiritual Gifts and how you can use them to further Christ’s Kingdom on earth, visit this link.

#1 Gift, Evangelism (100%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I try to share the Gospel with everyone I know. I want to win as many souls as I can for Christ’s kingdom and be an example through Christ as He leads by His Holy Spirit.

#2 Gift, Mercy Showing (100%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
To love the Lord with all of our heart, soul and might is the greatest commandment and the next is to love our neighbor as ourselves. We must love as Jesus loved and show mercy and compassion just as he did. We are to love one another as he has loved us!

#3 Gift, Teaching (100%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I love to share the Word of God and am so excited to study and share with others the meaning of scripture and help others to understand what the spirit is saying to us through God’s Word.

[H]eart

Three things I love to do that bring joy and fulfillment in my life:

1. I love prayer and devotion, and time spent alone with the Lord Jesus. I love time in His Word and going to church with my family to church to worship and be fed by God’s Word and be blessed in His presence.

2. I love being a wife and mother and doing the best to minister to my family with guidance and wisdom from the Holy Spirit.

3. Last, but not least, I love ministering to others in prayer and deed to the calling and fulfillment of the Will of God in my life.

Who I love to work with most, and the age or type of people:

All ages; I have a heart for people and am definitely a people person. I have worked with people of all ages. I worked in the nursery at churches. ( I have 5 children and 2 grandchildren) I have also held a Sunday school class of kindergarten through 2nd grade. I have teenagers and young adults, so very comfortable with that age. I have also worked in a nursing home ministry, ministering in song, testimony and prayer.

Church issues, ministries, or possible needs that excite or concern me the most:

I feel I am called to be a prayer warrior and really desire to take our needs before God in prayer and fasting as the spirit leads. We as a church and the body of Christ should always be listening to hear His Spirit and be obedient to His Will in every area of our lives.

*Mark the Top 3 from the list, that Trigger a Passion in You

Poverty/hunger
Spiritual laziness
Other – Reaching the lost

[A]bilities

My current vocation:

I am currently a stay at home mom.

Other jobs I have experience in:

I have worked in group homes, In-home health care and at Taylor district school. In the church, I have worked in Sunday school, been in the choir and done special singing. I’ve served on the committee helping organize events, such as plays, Christmas Tea, banquets, Jubilees, and many other events. I have worked in the kitchen during special events and dinners. Cleaned the church weekly for about 2 years. I have also done office work, such as attendance, filing, inventory, and weekly newsletters. I have also worked in the nursing home ministry.

Special talents/skills that I have:

I love scripture and have applied myself to know as much as I can about the Infallible Word of God, through the Holy Spirit and by the wonderful preachers and teachers the Lord has placed in my life. I love to sing and play the piano. I love to cook and bake. I also have computer and people skills.

I have taught a class or seminar on:

I have taught Sunday school for kindergarten to 2nd grade.

I feel my most valuable personal asset is:

I love serving the Lord and desire to be a willing vessel wherever I am needed and always serve with a cheerful heart.

[P]ersonality

The personality traits that best fit me are:

Extrovert

Low Risk

Peace Maker

50-50 People/Project Driven

50-50 Follower/Leader

50-50 Routine/Variety

1. 2 Likes Control 4 Enthusiastic 3 Sensitive 1 Reserved
2. 1 Firm 4 Energetic 3 Non-Demanding 2 Practical
3. 1 Likes Challenge 4 Promoter 3 Enjoys Routine 2 Factual
4. 4 Problem Solver 3 Mixes Easily 2 Relational 1 Perfectionistic
5. 2 Bold 3 Fun-Loving 4 Thoughtful 1 Detailed
6. 1 Goal Driven 3 Optimistic 4 Patient 2 Inquisitive
7. 2 Strong Willed 3 Motivator 4 Good Listener 1 Accurate
8. 3 Takes Charge 2 Very Verbal 4 Loyal 1 Predictable
9. 4 Determined 2 Popular 1 Dislikes Change 3 Orderly
10. 2 Competitive 3 Group Oriented 4 Sympathetic 1 Analytical
11. 3 Purposeful 2 Inspirational 4 Nurturing 1 Precise
12. 3 Action Oriented 2 Likes Change 4 Peace Maker 1 Scheduled
28 Total 35 Total 40 Total 17 Total

Your Primary was ‘The Retriever’, with your Secondary coming in as ‘The Otter’, and here are the descriptions of your Personalities, and how they can be used for God

Golden Retriever- Good at making friends. Very loyal. Retriever personalities do not like big changes. They look for security. Can be very sensitive. Very caring. Has deep relationships, but usually only a couple of close friends. Wants to be loved by everyone. Looks for appreciation. Works best in a limited situation with a steady work pattern.

Strength: Accommodating, calm, affirming
Weakness: Indecisive, indifferent, unable to express emotional, too soft on other people
Limitation: Seeing the need to be more assertive, holding others accountable

Otter- Otters are very social creature. Otter personalities love people. They enjoys being popular and influencing and motivating others. Otter can sometimes be hurt when people do not like them. Otter personalities usually have lots of friends, but not deep relationships. They love to goof-off. (They are notorious for messy rooms.) Otters like to hurry and finish jobs. (Jobs are not often done well.) The otter personality is like Tigger in Winnie The Pooh.

Strength: People person, open, positive
Weakness: Talks too much, too permissive
Limitation: Remembering past commitments, follow through with discipline

[E]xperience

My brief testimony of how I became a Christian

I grew up in church and was dedicated as a baby. I went to the altar and gave my heart to Jesus when I was 10 years old. I backslid for a period of time and rededicated my life to the Lord Jesus and have been serving Him ever since.

Ministry Experience (Where I have served in the past, if applicable, including ChurchName, City/State, Position, Years Involved):

I attended Van Born Church of God as a baby and child. Then attended Dearborn Church of God for about 8 years. I attended Living Word Church of God for about 15 years. Throughout the years, at these churches, I have worked in Sunday school, been in the choir and done special singing. I’ve served on the committee helping organize events, such as plays, Christmas Tea, banquets, Jubilees, and many other events. I have worked in the kitchen during special events and dinners. Cleaned the church weekly for about 2 years. I have also done office work, such as attendance, filing, inventory, and weekly newsletters. I have also worked in the nursing home ministry.

List 3 Positive experiences from the past that made a big impact on who you are today:

List 3 Negative Experiences from your past that have helped to Shape me, but also have given you great compassion for others going through similar circumstances:

I was in an abusive marriage where myself and my children were abused in several different ways and the marriage ended in divorce.

I had a miscarriage in 2013 and went thru a time of grief.

I have 2 brothers that almost died on heroin and both were in prison. It was very hard on my mom and our family.

Wrapping It Up

The Challenge: Based upon your S.H.A.P.E. Assessment above (the way God wired you), If you knew you couldn’t fail … and ‘lack of money, or time’ was not an obstacle… list your Top 3 Things you would ‘Focus’ your Life on, next to #1 Loving God & #2 Loving Your Neighbor (these would be your ‘3 God-Sized Dreams’ for your life)?

1. My Relationship with GOD

2. My Relationship with Others

  • Putting Your Spouse First
  • Your Kids Second
  • Everyone Else After those

3. I would love to have a ministry in helping the poor, homeless and ophans.

4. I would love to sing for the Glory of God

5. Teach a children’s sunday school class again.