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S.H.A.P.E. Assessment Results

Thank you Brian Durham for taking the SHAPE Assessment. We encourage you to meet with a Church Leader that you respect, to go over your results, so that they can help you discover a place to serve in the church and/or community, and also to help you fine-tune your 5 Main Focuses/Priorities listed at the bottom of this email under the ‘Wrapping it up’ section. May God Bless You!

[S]piritual Gifts

Here is how your spiritual gifts scored (in alphabetical order):

Administration

43%

Evangelism

59%

Exhortation/Encouragement

62%

Giving

53%

Mercy Showing

62%

Prophecy

59%

Pastoring/Shepherding

56%

Serving

15%

Teaching

53%

To see descriptions on the Spiritual Gifts and how you can use them to further Christ’s Kingdom on earth, visit this link.

#1 Gift, Exhortation/Encouragement (62%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I enjoying teaching and encouraging people and helping deepen their understanding to God and commit more to Him

#2 Gift, Mercy Showing (62%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I feel for others and want to represent Christ to them

#3 Gift, Evangelism (59%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I want to help exalt the name of Christ by trying to remove misunderstandings and connect Christ’s truth with people’s ultimate desires.

[H]eart

Three things I love to do that bring joy and fulfillment in my life:

1. I love providing for others

2. I love making people feel comfortable and engaging their minds and hearts

3. I love being in nature and travelling to new places and new cultures

Who I love to work with most, and the age or type of people:

High school age kids

Church issues, ministries, or possible needs that excite or concern me the most:

Concerned by humanism’s sway

*Mark the Top 3 from the list, that Trigger a Passion in You

Marriage/family issues
Parenting
Educational

[A]bilities

My current vocation:

Education

Other jobs I have experience in:

Business, ministry

Special talents/skills that I have:

Musical, sports, history, philosophy

I have taught a class or seminar on:

History

I feel my most valuable personal asset is:

My experiences?

[P]ersonality

The personality traits that best fit me are:

Extrovert

Low Risk

50-50 Peace Maker/Challenger

50-50 People/Project Driven

Leader

50-50 Routine/Variety

1. 4 Likes Control 3 Enthusiastic 2 Sensitive 1 Reserved
2. 2 Firm 4 Energetic 1 Non-Demanding 3 Practical
3. 3 Likes Challenge 4 Promoter 2 Enjoys Routine 1 Factual
4. 3 Problem Solver 1 Mixes Easily 4 Relational 2 Perfectionistic
5. 2 Bold 3 Fun-Loving 4 Thoughtful 1 Detailed
6. 2 Goal Driven 4 Optimistic 1 Patient 3 Inquisitive
7. 4 Strong Willed 3 Motivator 2 Good Listener 1 Accurate
8. 3 Takes Charge 2 Very Verbal 4 Loyal 1 Predictable
9. 3 Determined 4 Popular 2 Dislikes Change 1 Orderly
10. 4 Competitive 2 Group Oriented 3 Sympathetic 1 Analytical
11. 3 Purposeful 4 Inspirational 2 Nurturing 1 Precise
12. 2 Action Oriented 1 Likes Change 4 Peace Maker 3 Scheduled
35 Total 35 Total 31 Total 19 Total

Your Primary was ‘The Lion’, with your Secondary coming in as ‘The Otter’, and here are the descriptions of your Personalities, and how they can be used for God

Lion- This personality likes to lead. The lion is good at making decisions and is very goal-oriented. They enjoy challenges, difficult assignments, and opportunity for advancement. Because lions are thinking of the goal, they can step on people to reach it. Lions can be very aggressive and competitive. Lions must learn not to be too bossy or to take charge in other’s affairs.

Strength: Goal-oriented, strong, direct
Weakness: Argumentative, too dictatorial
Limitation: Doesn’t understand that directness can hurt others, hard time expressing grace

Otter- Otters are very social creature. Otter personalities love people. They enjoys being popular and influencing and motivating others. Otter can sometimes be hurt when people do not like them. Otter personalities usually have lots of friends, but not deep relationships. They love to goof-off. (They are notorious for messy rooms.) Otters like to hurry and finish jobs. (Jobs are not often done well.) The otter personality is like Tigger in Winnie The Pooh.

Strength: People person, open, positive
Weakness: Talks too much, too permissive
Limitation: Remembering past commitments, follow through with discipline

[E]xperience

My brief testimony of how I became a Christian

Legalist in high school. Freedom in college after failing and receiving grace.

Ministry Experience (Where I have served in the past, if applicable, including ChurchName, City/State, Position, Years Involved):

FBC Bryan

Pakistan

CCI, Impact, CCG

List 3 Positive experiences from the past that made a big impact on who you are today:

Mike Mercer – seeing personality

Pakistan – growing in confidence

My dad?? – humility

List 3 Negative Experiences from your past that have helped to Shape me, but also have given you great compassion for others going through similar circumstances:

IHOP KC stuff- friend suicide, corruption

Past universalist thoughts

Struggling with skeptical friends

Wrapping It Up

The Challenge: Based upon your S.H.A.P.E. Assessment above (the way God wired you), If you knew you couldn’t fail … and ‘lack of money, or time’ was not an obstacle… list your Top 3 Things you would ‘Focus’ your Life on, next to #1 Loving God & #2 Loving Your Neighbor (these would be your ‘3 God-Sized Dreams’ for your life)?

1. My Relationship with GOD

2. My Relationship with Others

  • Putting Your Spouse First
  • Your Kids Second
  • Everyone Else After those

3. Teaching history and worldview to students

4. serving internationals somehow – interfaith discussions

5. Church history class? Partially homeschooling (supporting family)? Supporting other ministries/people?