S.H.A.P.E. Assessment Results

Thank you Jeanne Oakley for taking the SHAPE Assessment. We encourage you to meet with a Church Leader that you respect, to go over your results, so that they can help you discover a place to serve in the church and/or community, and also to help you fine-tune your 5 Main Focuses/Priorities listed at the bottom of this email under the ‘Wrapping it up’ section. May God Bless You!

[S]piritual Gifts

Here is how your spiritual gifts scored (in alphabetical order):

Administration

56%

Evangelism

53%

Exhortation/Encouragement

62%

Giving

46%

Mercy Showing

25%

Prophecy

43%

Pastoring/Shepherding

31%

Serving

28%

Teaching

43%

To see descriptions on the Spiritual Gifts and how you can use them to further Christ’s Kingdom on earth, visit this link.

#1 Gift, Exhortation/Encouragement (62%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I think of this in regards to those in recovery combined with my passion for sexual integrity.

#2 Gift, Administration (56%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I’m super organized, this always comes up. I’m a task master.

#3 Gift, Evangelism (53%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
Not sure why this came up. I don’t really feel called in this area or equipped. I do feel a passion to share Biblical truths on sexual integrity however.

[H]eart

Three things I love to do that bring joy and fulfillment in my life:

1. share what I learned from my pain to walk with others through their crisis

2. dance and perform with my dance group

3. bridge people with resources to help bring clarity for issues in their life

Who I love to work with most, and the age or type of people:

married couples recovering from sexual addiction
teens learning about sexual integrity
pre-marrieds to root out possible sexual integrity issues

Church issues, ministries, or possible needs that excite or concern me the most:

sexual addiction
codependency
teen sexuality
pre-marital counsel and sexual integrity warning signs

*Mark the Top 3 from the list, that Trigger a Passion in You

Marriage/family issues
Parenting
Divorce
Other – sexual addiction and recovery

[A]bilities

My current vocation:

homemaker

Other jobs I have experience in:

teacher
flight attendance

Special talents/skills that I have:

teaching, speak Spanish, lesson planning, engaging audiences, seeing shortcuts and efficiency, travel experience, authentic, transparent, not afraid of the hard subjects

I have taught a class or seminar on:

most all subjects K-12, led seeker Bible studies, youth groups, dance troop, cultural immersion,

I feel my most valuable personal asset is:

sexual integrity recovery, quick learner, authentic speaker

[P]ersonality

The personality traits that best fit me are:

50-50 Extrovert/Reserved

50-50 High/Low Risk

50-50 Peace Maker/Challenger

Project Driven

Leader

Variety

1. 4 Likes Control	3 Enthusiastic	1 Sensitive	2 Reserved
2. 2 Firm	3 Energetic	1 Non-Demanding	4 Practical
3. 3 Likes Challenge	2 Promoter	1 Enjoys Routine	4 Factual
4. 3 Problem Solver	4 Mixes Easily	2 Relational	1 Perfectionistic
5. 1 Bold	2 Fun-Loving	3 Thoughtful	4 Detailed
6. 4 Goal Driven	2 Optimistic	1 Patient	3 Inquisitive
7. 1 Strong Willed	2 Motivator	3 Good Listener	4 Accurate
8. 3 Takes Charge	4 Very Verbal	2 Loyal	1 Predictable
9. 3 Determined	2 Popular	1 Dislikes Change	4 Orderly
10. 4 Competitive	2 Group Oriented	3 Sympathetic	1 Analytical
11. 4 Purposeful	3 Inspirational	2 Nurturing	1 Precise
12. 4 Action Oriented	3 Likes Change	1 Peace Maker	2 Scheduled
36 Total	32 Total	21 Total	31 Total

Your Primary was ‘The Lion’, with your Secondary coming in as ‘The Otter’, and here are the descriptions of your Personalities, and how they can be used for God

Lion- This personality likes to lead. The lion is good at making decisions and is very goal-oriented. They enjoy challenges, difficult assignments, and opportunity for advancement. Because lions are thinking of the goal, they can step on people to reach it. Lions can be very aggressive and competitive. Lions must learn not to be too bossy or to take charge in other’s affairs.

Strength: Goal-oriented, strong, direct
Weakness: Argumentative, too dictatorial
Limitation: Doesn’t understand that directness can hurt others, hard time expressing grace

Otter- Otters are very social creature. Otter personalities love people. They enjoys being popular and influencing and motivating others. Otter can sometimes be hurt when people do not like them. Otter personalities usually have lots of friends, but not deep relationships. They love to goof-off. (They are notorious for messy rooms.) Otters like to hurry and finish jobs. (Jobs are not often done well.) The otter personality is like Tigger in Winnie The Pooh.

Strength: People person, open, positive
Weakness: Talks too much, too permissive
Limitation: Remembering past commitments, follow through with discipline

[E]xperience

My brief testimony of how I became a Christian

Married with 2 small kids and had to teach them something. Husband got sick, dad was totally dysfunctional as an addict, I needed a higher power and Jesus came knocking. Kids were attending preschool and loved the pastor so we began attending weekly and giving joyfully,

Ministry Experience (Where I have served in the past, if applicable, including ChurchName, City/State, Position, Years Involved):

Church plants in Orlando

youth groups with YMCA and multi church partnerships

mission year in El Salvador

List 3 Positive experiences from the past that made a big impact on who you are today:

Recovery

professional experiences as flight attendant and teacher

studying and serving overseas

List 3 Negative Experiences from your past that have helped to Shape me, but also have given you great compassion for others going through similar circumstances:

child of addict

child of divorce

sexual integrity recovery

Wrapping It Up

The Challenge: Based upon your S.H.A.P.E. Assessment above (the way God wired you), If you knew you couldn’t fail … and ‘lack of money, or time’ was not an obstacle… list your Top 3 Things you would ‘Focus’ your Life on, next to #1 Loving God & #2 Loving Your Neighbor (these would be your ‘3 God-Sized Dreams’ for your life)?

1. My Relationship with GOD

2. My Relationship with Others

Putting Your Spouse First
Your Kids Second
Everyone Else After those

3. sexual integrity mentoring and discipleship for female addicts and female partners

4. create curriculum and publish material for sexual integrity

5. divorce prevention for those struggling with sexual integrity