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S.H.A.P.E. Assessment Results

Thank you Kelly Bergem for taking the SHAPE Assessment. We encourage you to meet with a Church Leader that you respect, to go over your results, so that they can help you discover a place to serve in the church and/or community, and also to help you fine-tune your 5 Main Focuses/Priorities listed at the bottom of this email under the ‘Wrapping it up’ section. May God Bless You!

[S]piritual Gifts

Here is how your spiritual gifts scored (in alphabetical order):

Administration

59%

Evangelism

25%

Exhortation/Encouragement

25%

Giving

59%

Mercy Showing

37%

Prophecy

28%

Pastoring/Shepherding

34%

Serving

81%

Teaching

65%

To see descriptions on the Spiritual Gifts and how you can use them to further Christ’s Kingdom on earth, visit this link.

#1 Gift, Serving (81%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I enjoy helping others, I tend to inherently know when someone is in need.

#2 Gift, Teaching (65%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I love to learn and like to look at different ways of doing and learning. Often I can “see” how someone learns and adapt to them.

#3 Gift, Administration (59%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I work in administrative areas and am pretty good at it.

[H]eart

Three things I love to do that bring joy and fulfillment in my life:

1. I love to be with my family enjoying each other’s company. Some people have become my family as I’ve been connected with likeminded ones.

2. I love learning deeper meanings in the Bible… stories, word meanings, connections.

3. I really enjoy games and puzzles- challenge and competitiveness.

Who I love to work with most, and the age or type of people:

I love to work with my husband as we read each other well. They age and type of people I enjoy working with is teenagers, they are quirky, funny and still looking for their way.

Church issues, ministries, or possible needs that excite or concern me the most:

Things that excite: out of the ordinary situations, new learning possibilities.
Things that concern: gossip, judging, rigidity

*Mark the Top 3 from the list, that Trigger a Passion in You

Abortion/sanctity of Life
Marriage/family issues
At-risk children

[A]bilities

My current vocation:

Accounting

Other jobs I have experience in:

Cashier, waitress and sports medicine

Special talents/skills that I have:

Organized, can research well and stubborn enough to find answers

I have taught a class or seminar on:

I feel my most valuable personal asset is:

Tenacity

[P]ersonality

The personality traits that best fit me are:

Reserved

Low Risk

Peace Maker

Project Driven

50-50 Follower/Leader

50-50 Routine/Variety

1. 2 Likes Control 1 Enthusiastic 3 Sensitive 4 Reserved
2. 3 Firm 1 Energetic 2 Non-Demanding 4 Practical
3. 4 Likes Challenge 1 Promoter 3 Enjoys Routine 2 Factual
4. 4 Problem Solver 2 Mixes Easily 1 Relational 3 Perfectionistic
5. 1 Bold 3 Fun-Loving 2 Thoughtful 4 Detailed
6. 4 Goal Driven 3 Optimistic 1 Patient 2 Inquisitive
7. 4 Strong Willed 1 Motivator 3 Good Listener 2 Accurate
8. 2 Takes Charge 1 Very Verbal 4 Loyal 3 Predictable
9. 2 Determined 1 Popular 4 Dislikes Change 3 Orderly
10. 4 Competitive 2 Group Oriented 1 Sympathetic 3 Analytical
11. 2 Purposeful 1 Inspirational 3 Nurturing 4 Precise
12. 2 Action Oriented 1 Likes Change 3 Peace Maker 4 Scheduled
33 Total 18 Total 30 Total 38 Total

Your Primary was ‘The Beaver’, with your Secondary coming in as ‘The Lion’, and here are the descriptions of your Personalities, and how they can be used for God

Beaver- Organized. Beavers think that there is a right way to do everything and they want to do it exactly that way. Beaver personalities are very creative. They desire to solve everything. Desire to take their time and do it right. Beavers do not like sudden changes. They need reassurance.

Strength: High standards, order, respect
Weakness: Unrealistic expectations of self & others, too perfect.
Limitation: Seeing the optimistic side of things, expressing flexibility

Lion- This personality likes to lead. The lion is good at making decisions and is very goal-oriented. They enjoy challenges, difficult assignments, and opportunity for advancement. Because lions are thinking of the goal, they can step on people to reach it. Lions can be very aggressive and competitive. Lions must learn not to be too bossy or to take charge in other’s affairs.

Strength: Goal-oriented, strong, direct
Weakness: Argumentative, too dictatorial
Limitation: Doesn’t understand that directness can hurt others, hard time expressing grace

[E]xperience

My brief testimony of how I became a Christian

Became a Christian as a young child, then walked away in my mid 20’s. After 6-7 years of trying to do life on my own, it was falling apart. Near rock bottom I began to seek Him again.

Ministry Experience (Where I have served in the past, if applicable, including ChurchName, City/State, Position, Years Involved):

Youth leader and teen Sunday school leader 2008-2018
Church board member: 2010-Current.
SV Church of the Nazarene, Idaho

List 3 Positive experiences from the past that made a big impact on who you are today:

Meeting my husband and walking with him in this life.

Having amazing Godly grandparents who helped guide me as a child.

The day both my children were born.

List 3 Negative Experiences from your past that have helped to Shape me, but also have given you great compassion for others going through similar circumstances:

My mother was in a severe debilitating accident when I was 2, she is permanently disabled from it.

Being hurt by individuals in the church.

My parents really messy divorce.

Wrapping It Up

The Challenge: Based upon your S.H.A.P.E. Assessment above (the way God wired you), If you knew you couldn’t fail … and ‘lack of money, or time’ was not an obstacle… list your Top 3 Things you would ‘Focus’ your Life on, next to #1 Loving God & #2 Loving Your Neighbor (these would be your ‘3 God-Sized Dreams’ for your life)?

1. My Relationship with GOD

2. My Relationship with Others

  • Putting Your Spouse First
  • Your Kids Second
  • Everyone Else After those

3. Volunteer for Cure international

4. Run a church camp

5. Teach youth important life skills