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S.H.A.P.E. Assessment Results

Thank you l.Pamela Parham for taking the SHAPE Assessment. We encourage you to meet with a Church Leader that you respect, to go over your results, so that they can help you discover a place to serve in the church and/or community, and also to help you fine-tune your 5 Main Focuses/Priorities listed at the bottom of this email under the ‘Wrapping it up’ section. May God Bless You!

[S]piritual Gifts

Here is how your spiritual gifts scored (in alphabetical order):

Administration

84%

Evangelism

100%

Exhortation/Encouragement

87%

Giving

93%

Mercy Showing

78%

Prophecy

93%

Pastoring/Shepherding

68%

Serving

87%

Teaching

84%

To see descriptions on the Spiritual Gifts and how you can use them to further Christ’s Kingdom on earth, visit this link.

#1 Gift, Evangelism (100%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I enjoy sharing the word of God with believer and non-believer. We are commissioned to go therefore into all the world and spread the Gospel of Jesus Christ.

#2 Gift, Giving (93%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
God has blessed me tremendously and I feel obligated share how he has blessed me with others and the church.

#3 Gift, Prophecy (93%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I have had things revealed to me regarding my family and been a witness to seeing it happen.

[H]eart

Three things I love to do that bring joy and fulfillment in my life:

1. I enjoy reading and studying the Bible.

2. Attending Bible study, church and church school.

3. Serving others gives me a sense of worth and contentment.

Who I love to work with most, and the age or type of people:

Seniors and young adults.

Church issues, ministries, or possible needs that excite or concern me the most:

The overall maintenance of the church. There appear to be a serious need for improvement. Then northax floor, kitchen, doors, etc. If we don’t do something soon, I believe we can have many problems in the near future.

*Mark the Top 3 from the list, that Trigger a Passion in You

Homelessness
Drug abuse/recovery
Poverty/hunger

[A]bilities

My current vocation:

Retired

Other jobs I have experience in:

Lab. Research Tech. , Teacher, counselor, asst. principal, administrator, Real Estate Agent , receptionist, and office clerk.

Special talents/skills that I have:

LeadershipProblem solving, interviewing, advising, conflict resolution, people management. Professional: Dedication, Honesty, Reliability, and integrity , Coordinating, Goal Setting, Time management, and prioritizing.

I have taught a class or seminar on:

Child Abuse/Neglect, Testing Taking, Teacher in-Service Seminar, Parent/Student Orientation, Career Planning Seminar, Instructional Seminars, and School discipline.

I feel my most valuable personal asset is:

[P]ersonality

The personality traits that best fit me are:

Extrovert

People Driven

Leader

1. 3 Likes Control 4 Enthusiastic 4 Sensitive 3 Reserved
2. 4 Firm 4 Energetic 3 Non-Demanding 4 Practical
3. 3 Likes Challenge 3 Promoter 2 Enjoys Routine 4 Factual
4. 4 Problem Solver 4 Mixes Easily 4 Relational 4 Perfectionistic
5. 3 Bold 3 Fun-Loving 4 Thoughtful 4 Detailed
6. 4 Goal Driven 3 Optimistic 3 Patient 4 Inquisitive
7. 4 Strong Willed 4 Motivator 4 Good Listener 3 Accurate
8. 4 Takes Charge 3 Very Verbal 4 Loyal 1 Predictable
9. 4 Determined 3 Popular 3 Dislikes Change 4 Orderly
10. 3 Competitive 4 Group Oriented 4 Sympathetic 4 Analytical
11. 3 Purposeful 3 Inspirational 3 Nurturing 4 Precise
12. 3 Action Oriented 3 Likes Change 4 Peace Maker 4 Scheduled
42 Total 41 Total 42 Total 43 Total

Your Primary was ‘The Beaver’, with your Secondary coming in as ‘The Lion’, and here are the descriptions of your Personalities, and how they can be used for God

Beaver- Organized. Beavers think that there is a right way to do everything and they want to do it exactly that way. Beaver personalities are very creative. They desire to solve everything. Desire to take their time and do it right. Beavers do not like sudden changes. They need reassurance.

Strength: High standards, order, respect
Weakness: Unrealistic expectations of self & others, too perfect.
Limitation: Seeing the optimistic side of things, expressing flexibility

Lion- This personality likes to lead. The lion is good at making decisions and is very goal-oriented. They enjoy challenges, difficult assignments, and opportunity for advancement. Because lions are thinking of the goal, they can step on people to reach it. Lions can be very aggressive and competitive. Lions must learn not to be too bossy or to take charge in other’s affairs.

Strength: Goal-oriented, strong, direct
Weakness: Argumentative, too dictatorial
Limitation: Doesn’t understand that directness can hurt others, hard time expressing grace

[E]xperience

My brief testimony of how I became a Christian

I was raised in a christian home. I had to learn to pray and read bible. Attended church and Sunday school , revival, BTU and Vacation Bible School. Taught Sunday school. During Fall Revival, I felt the call to give my life to Christ. When the invitation was extended, I stepped forward.

Ministry Experience (Where I have served in the past, if applicable, including ChurchName, City/State, Position, Years Involved):

Pleasant Grove Baptist, Wendell, North Carolina: Usher, Sunday school Teacher.

NBBC: Usher, Trustee, Asst. Treasurer, Treasurer, Deaconess, Elder, Women’s Choir,
Women’s Ministry Committee, Chairperson Pastor/Church Anniversary, and Taught in After School Tutorial Program.

List 3 Positive experiences from the past that made a big impact on who you are today:

Serving in church and working with high school students.

The love of family and friends.

Helping others.

List 3 Negative Experiences from your past that have helped to Shape me, but also have given you great compassion for others going through similar circumstances:

Growing up without a sister(s)

Having to struggle for things growing up on a farm.

Wrapping It Up

The Challenge: Based upon your S.H.A.P.E. Assessment above (the way God wired you), If you knew you couldn’t fail … and ‘lack of money, or time’ was not an obstacle… list your Top 3 Things you would ‘Focus’ your Life on, next to #1 Loving God & #2 Loving Your Neighbor (these would be your ‘3 God-Sized Dreams’ for your life)?

1. My Relationship with GOD

2. My Relationship with Others

  • Putting Your Spouse First
  • Your Kids Second
  • Everyone Else After those

3. How to develop a way to extrapolate the meaning of Gods’ word more.

4. Show more patience to others.

5. A lawyer to help churches.