Marsha@hearin.net

 

S.H.A.P.E. Assessment Results

Thank you Marsha Wilhite for taking the SHAPE Assessment. We encourage you to meet with a Church Leader that you respect, to go over your results, so that they can help you discover a place to serve in the church and/or community, and also to help you fine-tune your 5 Main Focuses/Priorities listed at the bottom of this email under the ‘Wrapping it up’ section. May God Bless You!

[S]piritual Gifts

Here is how your spiritual gifts scored (in alphabetical order):

Administration

40%

Evangelism

40%

Exhortation/Encouragement

53%

Giving

78%

Mercy Showing

59%

Prophecy

40%

Pastoring/Shepherding

34%

Serving

75%

Teaching

53%

To see descriptions on the Spiritual Gifts and how you can use them to further Christ’s Kingdom on earth, visit this link.

#1 Gift, Giving (78%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I have always been a person who gives generously to the church. I have been blessed with enough resources and money to give to this cause to help others

#2 Gift, Serving (75%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I like to be involved but not on the front line. I do not feel comfortable teaching or being in control of a group biblically. I do not feel strong in the Bible however I was raised in the church and know the usual bible stories but not the details. I am bad with history. Lol

#3 Gift, Mercy Showing (59%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I am a nurse and have a heart for helping people. I am curious as to their needs and what got the to the place they are now. I love to help medically and in crisis. Hence, a trauma nurse I am

[H]eart

Three things I love to do that bring joy and fulfillment in my life:

1. Help in crisis physically

2. I love exercise programs and anything to do with physical activity

3. Love being with my grand babies and children. I also love young adults ( younger than myself)

Who I love to work with most, and the age or type of people:

Young married people with lots of energy who are educated

Church issues, ministries, or possible needs that excite or concern me the most:

Looking for a great small group that studies books with current issues and relates back to the Bible and how to apply it to my life

*Mark the Top 3 from the list, that Trigger a Passion in You

Homelessness
Marriage/family issues
Health/fitness

[A]bilities

My current vocation:

Retired RN trauma nurse

Other jobs I have experience in:

Supervisor skilsin hospital setting for 20 years

Special talents/skills that I have:

I have taught a class or seminar on:

Mostly healthcare topics

I feel my most valuable personal asset is:

Helping others and physical activity

[P]ersonality

The personality traits that best fit me are:

Extrovert

Low Risk

Peace Maker

People Driven

Follower

Team

Variety

1. 2 Likes Control 4 Enthusiastic 3 Sensitive 1 Reserved
2. 1 Firm 4 Energetic 3 Non-Demanding 2 Practical
3. 1 Likes Challenge 3 Promoter 4 Enjoys Routine 2 Factual
4. 1 Problem Solver 4 Mixes Easily 2 Relational 3 Perfectionistic
5. 1 Bold 4 Fun-Loving 3 Thoughtful 2 Detailed
6. 1 Goal Driven 2 Optimistic 4 Patient 3 Inquisitive
7. 1 Strong Willed 3 Motivator 4 Good Listener 2 Accurate
8. 1 Takes Charge 4 Very Verbal 3 Loyal 2 Predictable
9. 2 Determined 4 Popular 1 Dislikes Change 3 Orderly
10. 3 Competitive 2 Group Oriented 4 Sympathetic 1 Analytical
11. 3 Purposeful 2 Inspirational 4 Nurturing 1 Precise
12. 4 Action Oriented 1 Likes Change 3 Peace Maker 2 Scheduled
21 Total 37 Total 38 Total 23 Total

Your Primary was ‘The Retriever’, with your Secondary coming in as ‘The Otter’, and here are the descriptions of your Personalities, and how they can be used for God

Golden Retriever- Good at making friends. Very loyal. Retriever personalities do not like big changes. They look for security. Can be very sensitive. Very caring. Has deep relationships, but usually only a couple of close friends. Wants to be loved by everyone. Looks for appreciation. Works best in a limited situation with a steady work pattern.

Strength: Accommodating, calm, affirming
Weakness: Indecisive, indifferent, unable to express emotional, too soft on other people
Limitation: Seeing the need to be more assertive, holding others accountable

Otter- Otters are very social creature. Otter personalities love people. They enjoys being popular and influencing and motivating others. Otter can sometimes be hurt when people do not like them. Otter personalities usually have lots of friends, but not deep relationships. They love to goof-off. (They are notorious for messy rooms.) Otters like to hurry and finish jobs. (Jobs are not often done well.) The otter personality is like Tigger in Winnie The Pooh.

Strength: People person, open, positive
Weakness: Talks too much, too permissive
Limitation: Remembering past commitments, follow through with discipline

[E]xperience

My brief testimony of how I became a Christian

I grew up in church and going to camp Bethlehem every summer. Was told and worshipped with Rural Oslly every summer. He was a great-leader to bring youth to be saved and understand the Bible and way to Christ. I accepted him as my savior at 13 and have followed him since that time. I was a stronger Christian as a youth than as a adult. I believed it was and is my responsibility to teach the way to my children and grandchildren. I was raised to be at church and every time the doors were opened and we were there. My children are now adults and have chosen to follow my lead as christians. I have a desire to learn the Bible all over again as an adult if that makes sense. On a more educated level. I do enjoy reading my grandchildren’s bible story books to them

Ministry Experience (Where I have served in the past, if applicable, including ChurchName, City/State, Position, Years Involved):

List 3 Positive experiences from the past that made a big impact on who you are today:

I came from a divorced family with a strong mother of faith and a father who was successful and shared in our success. He was not always involved in our lives but supported us. We were a very close family We always had fun and we loved being together. We were different because when my parents divorced no one was divorced. My mom was a driven person and they both wanted the best for us. I met my now deceased husband at 17 as my youth minister. Yep that’s right and we knew that was a no-no. We dated 4 years and were married for 25. We had our ups and downs but we loved each other through it. No one gave us anything. We worked for it and made it on our own. He taught our children a strong work ethic. We became an even stronger couple and family when he was struck with ALS. Devistated is not the word but it helped my children as well as myself to grow in our relationship with Christ as we worked through his sickness and ultimate passing. We never thought that anything bad could or would happen to us. The year after he was diagnosised my son who was a great athlete and was on a radar for a d-1 scholarship broke his leg and all the ambitions were crushed. Thattoohelped us work through disappointments and what would be next thoughts for him. I month after my husband passed his father who was very close to my children was run over by a car and killed. Once again with we’re forced to rely on god for our strength. We are so happy and grateful for there tragedies that have happened even though so very hard. We know where we are going and who will be there when we get there

List 3 Negative Experiences from your past that have helped to Shape me, but also have given you great compassion for others going through similar circumstances:

Maybe my positives should have been negatives! Positives would be family, church, mother, deceased husband

Wrapping It Up

The Challenge: Based upon your S.H.A.P.E. Assessment above (the way God wired you), If you knew you couldn’t fail … and ‘lack of money, or time’ was not an obstacle… list your Top 3 Things you would ‘Focus’ your Life on, next to #1 Loving God & #2 Loving Your Neighbor (these would be your ‘3 God-Sized Dreams’ for your life)?

1. My Relationship with GOD

2. My Relationship with Others

  • Putting Your Spouse First
  • Your Kids Second
  • Everyone Else After those

3. Work asa trauma nurse on the front line in a war

4. Be a member of a great small group of friends who have the same interests as myself

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