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S.H.A.P.E. Assessment Results

Thank you Emily DeCosta for taking the SHAPE Assessment. We encourage you to meet with a Church Leader that you respect, to go over your results, so that they can help you discover a place to serve in the church and/or community, and also to help you fine-tune your 5 Main Focuses/Priorities listed at the bottom of this email under the ‘Wrapping it up’ section. May God Bless You!

[S]piritual Gifts

Here is how your spiritual gifts scored (in alphabetical order):

Administration

50%

Evangelism

90%

Exhortation/Encouragement

53%

Giving

65%

Mercy Showing

59%

Prophecy

56%

Pastoring/Shepherding

43%

Serving

87%

Teaching

84%

To see descriptions on the Spiritual Gifts and how you can use them to further Christ’s Kingdom on earth, visit this link.

#1 Gift, Evangelism (90%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I know the greatest love, joy and peace that can be had in this life is through Christ. How can I not share it!

#2 Gift, Serving (87%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I enjoy being a help to others. I don’t like taking the lead in things, but I enjoy listening, giving ideas, and being a helper when someone needs it.

#3 Gift, Teaching (84%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I do enjoy teaching. It’s a joy to see the “light bulb” turn on for someone when you’re teaching them a truth or new concept.

[H]eart

Three things I love to do that bring joy and fulfillment in my life:

1. Serving my husband and children and being a homemaker.

2. Spending time with friends or small groups

3. Exercising and Gardening in the Spring and Summer

Who I love to work with most, and the age or type of people:

Children, women

Church issues, ministries, or possible needs that excite or concern me the most:

Missions, children’s ministry

*Mark the Top 3 from the list, that Trigger a Passion in You

Marriage/family issues
Parenting
Financial stewardship

[A]bilities

My current vocation:

Homemaker, Secretary for REACH homeschool group

Other jobs I have experience in:

Librarian, Teaching (day care, music, kids), Secretary work (past churches), Mom’s ministry

Special talents/skills that I have:

Playing piano, singing, playing sports, gardening, crocheting, organizing (I’m a minimalist), home improvement projects

I have taught a class or seminar on:

Mostly children’s classes

I feel my most valuable personal asset is:

Helping and encouraging

[P]ersonality

The personality traits that best fit me are:

Extrovert

Low Risk

Peace Maker

People Driven

Follower

Team

Routine

1. 3 Likes Control 4 Enthusiastic 2 Sensitive 1 Reserved
2. 2 Firm 3 Energetic 1 Non-Demanding 4 Practical
3. 2 Likes Challenge 1 Promoter 4 Enjoys Routine 3 Factual
4. 1 Problem Solver 4 Mixes Easily 2 Relational 3 Perfectionistic
5. 1 Bold 4 Fun-Loving 2 Thoughtful 3 Detailed
6. 3 Goal Driven 4 Optimistic 2 Patient 1 Inquisitive
7. 1 Strong Willed 4 Motivator 2 Good Listener 3 Accurate
8. 1 Takes Charge 2 Very Verbal 4 Loyal 3 Predictable
9. 3 Determined 1 Popular 2 Dislikes Change 4 Orderly
10. 2 Competitive 4 Group Oriented 1 Sympathetic 3 Analytical
11. 3 Purposeful 1 Inspirational 2 Nurturing 4 Precise
12. 2 Action Oriented 1 Likes Change 4 Peace Maker 3 Scheduled
24 Total 33 Total 28 Total 35 Total

Your Primary was ‘The Beaver’, with your Secondary coming in as ‘The Otter’, and here are the descriptions of your Personalities, and how they can be used for God

Beaver- Organized. Beavers think that there is a right way to do everything and they want to do it exactly that way. Beaver personalities are very creative. They desire to solve everything. Desire to take their time and do it right. Beavers do not like sudden changes. They need reassurance.

Strength: High standards, order, respect
Weakness: Unrealistic expectations of self & others, too perfect.
Limitation: Seeing the optimistic side of things, expressing flexibility

Otter- Otters are very social creature. Otter personalities love people. They enjoys being popular and influencing and motivating others. Otter can sometimes be hurt when people do not like them. Otter personalities usually have lots of friends, but not deep relationships. They love to goof-off. (They are notorious for messy rooms.) Otters like to hurry and finish jobs. (Jobs are not often done well.) The otter personality is like Tigger in Winnie The Pooh.

Strength: People person, open, positive
Weakness: Talks too much, too permissive
Limitation: Remembering past commitments, follow through with discipline

[E]xperience

My brief testimony of how I became a Christian

I made a profession of faith in first grade at my Christian school after hearing a message in chapel about Hell. I doubted my salvation because I couldn’t remember if I was truly repentant and understood what Christ had done for me at that age. At a Christian camp several years later, my heart was convicted and I wanted to know for certain that my soul was secure. I accepted Christ as my Savior and have the peace of God in my heart!

Ministry Experience (Where I have served in the past, if applicable, including ChurchName, City/State, Position, Years Involved):

Church I was raised in Bible Baptist Temple in GA. Age 4 the college years.
Various service- Choir, piano, visitation, children’s ministry

College years Emmanuel Baptist Church in NC, Maranatha Baptist Church in NC
Various service- Choir, piano, visitation, children’s ministry

Married in NH Emmanuel Baptist Church in NH- music, secretarial work, teens, visitation, children’s ministry, Tri-State Bible Baptist Church in NH-music, secretarial work, Grace Community Church in NH- children’s ministry, Mom’s Connection

List 3 Positive experiences from the past that made a big impact on who you are today:

Being raised by faithful, loving Christian parents and being able to have a Christian education have definitely shaped who I am today.

I have had many Christian leaders from high school through college that invested their time and life into mine. Their prayers and guidance helped me make important decisions at important times in my life.

God gave me an amazing husband that loves the Lord and loves his family which is a gift for which I am so thankful. With almost 16 married years together, he has loved, encouraged and strengthened me in so many ways that have impacted me.

List 3 Negative Experiences from your past that have helped to Shape me, but also have given you great compassion for others going through similar circumstances:

I had a best friend in high school that ran off with a married man that was also a leader in our church. Although it was a difficult experience, God taught me much throught the situation that shaped my future and my relationship with Him.

My husband and I have had the joy of being a part of several great churches. As a married couple, we did experience a trying time in one church that left us feeling hurt and discouraged. God made it clear to us that it was time to leave. He led us to another church that was a great help to us where we were able to serve and continue to grow in our relationship with Him.

I’ve experienced 2 miscarriages. It was a very sorrowful experience that drew my husband and I closer to the Lord and to each other. From time to time, the Lord has allowed our story to encourage those that we know are walking through a similar trial of loss.

Wrapping It Up

The Challenge: Based upon your S.H.A.P.E. Assessment above (the way God wired you), If you knew you couldn’t fail … and ‘lack of money, or time’ was not an obstacle… list your Top 3 Things you would ‘Focus’ your Life on, next to #1 Loving God & #2 Loving Your Neighbor (these would be your ‘3 God-Sized Dreams’ for your life)?

1. My Relationship with GOD

2. My Relationship with Others

  • Putting Your Spouse First
  • Your Kids Second
  • Everyone Else After those

3. Taking our family to visit our missionary friends and Pastors to encourage and help them

4. Take a trip to Israel

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