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S.H.A.P.E. Assessment Results

Thank you Melissa Byrd for taking the SHAPE Assessment. We encourage you to meet with a Church Leader that you respect, to go over your results, so that they can help you discover a place to serve in the church and/or community, and also to help you fine-tune your 5 Main Focuses/Priorities listed at the bottom of this email under the ‘Wrapping it up’ section. May God Bless You!

[S]piritual Gifts

Here is how your spiritual gifts scored:

Administration

53%

Evangelism

46%

Exhortation/Encouragement

68%

Giving

65%

Mercy Showing

68%

Prophecy

25%

Pastoring/Shepherding

40%

Serving

75%

Teaching

59%

To see descriptions on the Spiritual Gifts and how you can use them to further Christ’s Kingdom on earth, visit this link.

#1 Gift, Serving (75%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I love to help others and honestly if I could volunteer my time more often I would!

#2 Gift, Exhortation/Encouragement (68%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I consider myself a good listener and enjoy mentoring others.

#3 Gift, Mercy Showing (68%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
It is easy for me to show mercy to those who need it. I am passionate about others!

[H]eart

Three things I love to do that bring joy and fulfillment in my life:

1. Random acts of kindness – paying it forward – like buying someone’s lunch in the drivethrough line. I especially love to do this when my kids are with me.

2. Serving others and meeting new people through serving

3. Spending quality time with my family and friends

Who I love to work with most, and the age or type of people:

elderly people, people with special needs, elementary aged kids – really anyone! I love meeting new people and feeling like I am making an impact on their lives!

Church issues, ministries, or possible needs that excite or concern me the most:

I’m just excited to get involved in general – I’m not picky!

*Mark the Top 3 from the list, that Trigger a Passion in You

Educational
At-risk children
Health/fitness

[A]bilities

My current vocation:

Director of Sales at The Cordial Cherry

Other jobs I have experience in:

Marketing

Special talents/skills that I have:

Love to sing, can play violin, great at copy editing and proofreading documents

I have taught a class or seminar on:

I feel my most valuable personal asset is:

My strong eye for detail

[P]ersonality

The personality traits that best fit me are:

50-50 Extrovert/Reserved

50-50 High/Low Risk

50-50 Peace Maker/Challenger

50-50 People/Project Driven

50-50 Follower/Leader

Variety

1. 3 Likes Control 4 Enthusiastic 2 Sensitive 1 Reserved
2. 1 Firm 4 Energetic 3 Non-Demanding 2 Practical
3. 4 Likes Challenge 3 Promoter 1 Enjoys Routine 2 Factual
4. 1 Problem Solver 4 Mixes Easily 3 Relational 2 Perfectionistic
5. 1 Bold 2 Fun-Loving 4 Thoughtful 3 Detailed
6. 2 Goal Driven 3 Optimistic 1 Patient 4 Inquisitive
7. 1 Strong Willed 3 Motivator 4 Good Listener 2 Accurate
8. 2 Takes Charge 3 Very Verbal 1 Loyal 4 Predictable
9. 4 Determined 3 Popular 1 Dislikes Change 2 Orderly
10. 2 Competitive 3 Group Oriented 4 Sympathetic 1 Analytical
11. 2 Purposeful 3 Inspirational 4 Nurturing 1 Precise
12. 4 Action Oriented 3 Likes Change 2 Peace Maker 1 Scheduled
27 Total 38 Total 29 Total 25 Total

Your Primary was ‘The Otter’, with your Secondary coming in as ‘The Retriever’, and here are the descriptions of your Personalities, and how they can be used for God

Otter- Otters are very social creature. Otter personalities love people. They enjoys being popular and influencing and motivating others. Otter can sometimes be hurt when people do not like them. Otter personalities usually have lots of friends, but not deep relationships. They love to goof-off. (They are notorious for messy rooms.) Otters like to hurry and finish jobs. (Jobs are not often done well.) The otter personality is like Tigger in Winnie The Pooh.

Strength: People person, open, positive
Weakness: Talks too much, too permissive
Limitation: Remembering past commitments, follow through with discipline

Golden Retriever- Good at making friends. Very loyal. Retriever personalities do not like big changes. They look for security. Can be very sensitive. Very caring. Has deep relationships, but usually only a couple of close friends. Wants to be loved by everyone. Looks for appreciation. Works best in a limited situation with a steady work pattern.

Strength: Accommodating, calm, affirming
Weakness: Indecisive, indifferent, unable to express emotional, too soft on other people
Limitation: Seeing the need to be more assertive, holding others accountable

[E]xperience

My brief testimony of how I became a Christian

I grew up in a family where our parents really encouraged us to be active in church. I have always loved the fellowship I have been a part of in various churches I have attended throughout my life. I have never felt closer to the Lord and want to continue to grow!

Ministry Experience (Where I have served in the past, if applicable, including ChurchName, City/State, Position, Years Involved):

None

List 3 Positive experiences from the past that made a big impact on who you are today:

Meeting my true best friend in life, my husband Daniel!

Giving birth to 3 beautiful children

Mentoring others to complete a half or full marathon

List 3 Negative Experiences from your past that have helped to Shape me, but also have given you great compassion for others going through similar circumstances:

Divorce from my first husband

Financial hardship

Loss of job

Wrapping It Up

The Challenge: Based upon your S.H.A.P.E. Assessment above (the way God wired you), If you knew you couldn’t fail … and ‘lack of money, or time’ was not an obstacle… list your Top 3 Things you would ‘Focus’ your Life on, next to #1 Loving God & #2 Loving Your Neighbor (these would be your ‘3 God-Sized Dreams’ for your life)?

1. My Relationship with GOD

2. My Relationship with Others

  • Putting Your Spouse First
  • Your Kids Second
  • Everyone Else After those

3. To consistently make an impact on the lives of others through serving

4. To have a house our family can call home and to help others do the same

5. To be debt free and to help others do the same