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S.H.A.P.E. Assessment Results

Thank you Melissa Wilson for taking the SHAPE Assessment. We encourage you to meet with a Church Leader that you respect, to go over your results, so that they can help you discover a place to serve in the church and/or community, and also to help you fine-tune your 5 Main Focuses/Priorities listed at the bottom of this email under the ‘Wrapping it up’ section. May God Bless You!

[S]piritual Gifts

Here is how your spiritual gifts scored (in alphabetical order):

Administration

56%

Evangelism

50%

Exhortation/Encouragement

68%

Giving

40%

Mercy Showing

56%

Prophecy

28%

Pastoring/Shepherding

31%

Serving

53%

Teaching

40%

To see descriptions on the Spiritual Gifts and how you can use them to further Christ’s Kingdom on earth, visit this link.

#1 Gift, Exhortation/Encouragement (68%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I understand how God lives in is and loves each of us. I feel that this understanding creates a common ground for all those I come across.

#2 Gift, Administration (56%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I’m very well organized, and have strong leadership skills

#3 Gift, Mercy Showing (56%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
Several times in my life I’ve needed mercy – and found very little – it’s in this hurt I understand how much of a blessing it is to show it to others.

[H]eart

Three things I love to do that bring joy and fulfillment in my life:

1. My Lord – coming stronger in my understanding if him and the world

2. My blessed little boys – seeing them grow and change all the time

3. Creating and now growing my business.

Who I love to work with most, and the age or type of people:

Age is relative – I find that life experiences, and sharing love is timeless/ageless

Church issues, ministries, or possible needs that excite or concern me the most:

what I seek and am eager to see improve is having my church be a cornerstone in my life and build relationships outside of Sunday worship

*Mark the Top 3 from the list, that Trigger a Passion in You

Marriage/family issues
Financial stewardship
At-risk children

[A]bilities

My current vocation:

I have 2 businesses – one a craft business, and new e-commerce craft supply website

Other jobs I have experience in:

sales, human resources, accounting, software training

Special talents/skills that I have:

Baking, Crafts and singing.

I have taught a class or seminar on:

classroom technology software

I feel my most valuable personal asset is:

my heart

[P]ersonality

The personality traits that best fit me are:

Extrovert

Low Risk

Challenger

50-50 People/Project Driven

Leader

Solo

Variety

1. 3 Likes Control 2 Enthusiastic 4 Sensitive 1 Reserved
2. 2 Firm 4 Energetic 1 Non-Demanding 3 Practical
3. 3 Likes Challenge 4 Promoter 1 Enjoys Routine 2 Factual
4. 4 Problem Solver 1 Mixes Easily 3 Relational 2 Perfectionistic
5. 1 Bold 2 Fun-Loving 4 Thoughtful 2 Detailed
6. 2 Goal Driven 3 Optimistic 1 Patient 4 Inquisitive
7. 4 Strong Willed 3 Motivator 2 Good Listener 1 Accurate
8. 3 Takes Charge 4 Very Verbal 2 Loyal 1 Predictable
9. 4 Determined 1 Popular 2 Dislikes Change 3 Orderly
10. 3 Competitive 1 Group Oriented 2 Sympathetic 4 Analytical
11. 1 Purposeful 2 Inspirational 4 Nurturing 3 Precise
12. 3 Action Oriented 2 Likes Change 4 Peace Maker 1 Scheduled
33 Total 28 Total 30 Total 27 Total

Your Primary was ‘The Lion’, with your Secondary coming in as ‘The Retriever’, and here are the descriptions of your Personalities, and how they can be used for God

Lion- This personality likes to lead. The lion is good at making decisions and is very goal-oriented. They enjoy challenges, difficult assignments, and opportunity for advancement. Because lions are thinking of the goal, they can step on people to reach it. Lions can be very aggressive and competitive. Lions must learn not to be too bossy or to take charge in other’s affairs.

Strength: Goal-oriented, strong, direct
Weakness: Argumentative, too dictatorial
Limitation: Doesn’t understand that directness can hurt others, hard time expressing grace

Golden Retriever- Good at making friends. Very loyal. Retriever personalities do not like big changes. They look for security. Can be very sensitive. Very caring. Has deep relationships, but usually only a couple of close friends. Wants to be loved by everyone. Looks for appreciation. Works best in a limited situation with a steady work pattern.

Strength: Accommodating, calm, affirming
Weakness: Indecisive, indifferent, unable to express emotional, too soft on other people
Limitation: Seeing the need to be more assertive, holding others accountable

[E]xperience

My brief testimony of how I became a Christian

Not sure I have an exact moment… I was raised in the church – but didn’t feel worthy of God’s love until much later in life

Ministry Experience (Where I have served in the past, if applicable, including ChurchName, City/State, Position, Years Involved):

Served on 2 boards at Eden

List 3 Positive experiences from the past that made a big impact on who you are today:

Unfortunately more of my life experiences that molded me are not positive ones – I’ll have to get back to you on that

List 3 Negative Experiences from your past that have helped to Shape me, but also have given you great compassion for others going through similar circumstances:

Being in trouble

toxic relationships

dysfunctional family dynamic

Wrapping It Up

The Challenge: Based upon your S.H.A.P.E. Assessment above (the way God wired you), If you knew you couldn’t fail … and ‘lack of money, or time’ was not an obstacle… list your Top 3 Things you would ‘Focus’ your Life on, next to #1 Loving God & #2 Loving Your Neighbor (these would be your ‘3 God-Sized Dreams’ for your life)?

1. My Relationship with GOD

2. My Relationship with Others

  • Putting Your Spouse First
  • Your Kids Second
  • Everyone Else After those

3. Grow my business so that I have an opportunity to reach people and sjoet God’s love

4. Helping my boys be everything they want – but more importantly helping them have an amazing understanding with Gos

5. Being a great momma, wife and business owner