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S.H.A.P.E. Assessment Results

Thank you Monica Bennett for taking the SHAPE Assessment. We encourage you to meet with a Church Leader that you respect, to go over your results, so that they can help you discover a place to serve in the church and/or community, and also to help you fine-tune your 5 Main Focuses/Priorities listed at the bottom of this email under the ‘Wrapping it up’ section. May God Bless You!

[S]piritual Gifts

Here is how your spiritual gifts scored:

Administration

71%

Evangelism

81%

Exhortation/Encouragement

81%

Giving

37%

Mercy Showing

46%

Prophecy

37%

Pastoring/Shepherding

40%

Serving

53%

Teaching

43%

To see descriptions on the Spiritual Gifts and how you can use them to further Christ’s Kingdom on earth, visit this link.

#1 Gift, Evangelism (81%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I don’t mind speaking up and sharing the word of God I’m not shy.

#2 Gift, Exhortation/Encouragement (81%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I have a strong ability to put myself in other peoples shoes and show great empathy for what their going through I’m not judge mental . I listen to God and I’m usual able to encourage people with my personality and what God tells me to say to them on a level that’s not to formal but makes them feel comfortable and is usually pretty effective .

#3 Gift, Administration (71%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
My trade is being an electronic field service technician for the last 17 years So I’m well organized , I know how to manage time effectively , im good under pressure . And I know how to get the job done independently or working with a team. Im not great with typing but taking an idea and being able to see the beginning ,the steps in between to get it to completion and the small details most may over look is something I’m good at.

[H]eart

Three things I love to do that bring joy and fulfillment in my life:

1. Providing for my children.

2. Sharing some of the tough experiences that I’ve been through with others usually women. And actually seeing the advice I’ve given help them. Through their situation to make it easier for them.

3.

Who I love to work with most, and the age or type of people:

Women usual ages 20-45

Church issues, ministries, or possible needs that excite or concern me the most:

Excited to be apart of the singles women’s ministry.

*Mark the Top 3 from the list, that Trigger a Passion in You

Abuse/violence
Disabilities
Other – Helping women feel complete and whole during singleness

[A]bilities

My current vocation:

Electronic Engineering

Other jobs I have experience in:

Catering

Special talents/skills that I have:

I have taught a class or seminar on:

I feel my most valuable personal asset is:

My personality.

[P]ersonality

The personality traits that best fit me are:

50-50 Extrovert/Reserved

50-50 High/Low Risk

50-50 Peace Maker/Challenger

People Driven

Leader

Team

Variety

1. 3 Likes Control 4 Enthusiastic 1 Sensitive 2 Reserved
2. 1 Firm 3 Energetic 2 Non-Demanding 4 Practical
3. 1 Likes Challenge 3 Promoter 2 Enjoys Routine 4 Factual
4. 4 Problem Solver 2 Mixes Easily 3 Relational 1 Perfectionistic
5. 4 Bold 2 Fun-Loving 3 Thoughtful 1 Detailed
6. 2 Goal Driven 4 Optimistic 1 Patient 3 Inquisitive
7. 4 Strong Willed 2 Motivator 1 Good Listener 3 Accurate
8. 4 Takes Charge 3 Very Verbal 2 Loyal 1 Predictable
9. 2 Determined 4 Popular 1 Dislikes Change 3 Orderly
10. 1 Competitive 2 Group Oriented 3 Sympathetic 4 Analytical
11. 4 Purposeful 2 Inspirational 3 Nurturing 1 Precise
12. 4 Action Oriented 1 Likes Change 2 Peace Maker 3 Scheduled
34 Total 32 Total 24 Total 29 Total

Your Primary was ‘The Lion’, with your Secondary coming in as ‘The Otter’, and here are the descriptions of your Personalities, and how they can be used for God

Lion- This personality likes to lead. The lion is good at making decisions and is very goal-oriented. They enjoy challenges, difficult assignments, and opportunity for advancement. Because lions are thinking of the goal, they can step on people to reach it. Lions can be very aggressive and competitive. Lions must learn not to be too bossy or to take charge in other’s affairs.

Strength: Goal-oriented, strong, direct
Weakness: Argumentative, too dictatorial
Limitation: Doesn’t understand that directness can hurt others, hard time expressing grace

Otter- Otters are very social creature. Otter personalities love people. They enjoys being popular and influencing and motivating others. Otter can sometimes be hurt when people do not like them. Otter personalities usually have lots of friends, but not deep relationships. They love to goof-off. (They are notorious for messy rooms.) Otters like to hurry and finish jobs. (Jobs are not often done well.) The otter personality is like Tigger in Winnie The Pooh.

Strength: People person, open, positive
Weakness: Talks too much, too permissive
Limitation: Remembering past commitments, follow through with discipline

[E]xperience

My brief testimony of how I became a Christian

Was raised catholic at 20 Was tired of life , nothing was going my way. My hair dresser invited me to her Christian church I got saved that day and have been a follower ever since.

Ministry Experience (Where I have served in the past, if applicable, including ChurchName, City/State, Position, Years Involved):

Served in young teen ministry. Miracle life international ministries inglewood California involved 5 years.

List 3 Positive experiences from the past that made a big impact on who you are today:

Raising my daughter has a single mom and getting her to college made a big impact on who I am today

everyone Coming together and helping me financially when I was in serious need of medical funds for my daughter was a positive experience that changed and shaped the person I am today because it makes me value people more and treat them differently I realized I’m not in this thing alone. And being kind to people matters. I didn’t understand that so much until it was my turn to be a need.

List 3 Negative Experiences from your past that have helped to Shape me, but also have given you great compassion for others going through similar circumstances:

My daughter being diagnosed with a bone marrow disease gives me compassion for people with disabilities

Going through different relationships , being married , divorced , single , and a single mom. Also living through the abuse of living with someone who had narcissistic personality disorder and surviving Gives me compassion for women going through similar situations .

Having a great job then losing a great job gives me understanding for people who have and people who don’t. I’ve been on both sides. So I understand peoples different positions and where their comming from.

Wrapping It Up

The Challenge: Based upon your S.H.A.P.E. Assessment above (the way God wired you), If you knew you couldn’t fail … and ‘lack of money, or time’ was not an obstacle… list your Top 3 Things you would ‘Focus’ your Life on, next to #1 Loving God & #2 Loving Your Neighbor (these would be your ‘3 God-Sized Dreams’ for your life)?

1. My Relationship with GOD

2. My Relationship with Others

  • Putting Your Spouse First
  • Your Kids Second
  • Everyone Else After those

3. Creating a program or a center to help abused women.

4. I’d put together conferences for people to get educated and recover from Narcissistic abuse

5. I’d create a center for young girls to get the support they need if they weren’t able to get help from home