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S.H.A.P.E. Assessment Results

Thank you Kathy Turner for taking the SHAPE Assessment. We encourage you to meet with a Church Leader that you respect, to go over your results, so that they can help you discover a place to serve in the church and/or community, and also to help you fine-tune your 5 Main Focuses/Priorities listed at the bottom of this email under the ‘Wrapping it up’ section. May God Bless You!

[S]piritual Gifts

Here is how your spiritual gifts scored (in alphabetical order):

Administration

28%

Evangelism

53%

Exhortation/Encouragement

37%

Giving

50%

Mercy Showing

37%

Prophecy

50%

Pastoring/Shepherding

46%

Serving

59%

Teaching

78%

To see descriptions on the Spiritual Gifts and how you can use them to further Christ’s Kingdom on earth, visit this link.

#1 Gift, Teaching (78%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I love learning and teaching. I have training, experience, and a passion in this area.

#2 Gift, Serving (59%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
A good teacher is a servant.

#3 Gift, Evangelism (53%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
Is a type of teaching about the most important topic that can be taught.

[H]eart

Three things I love to do that bring joy and fulfillment in my life:

1. Be with family: my husband, children, and grandchildren.

2. Share fine arts with others including: music, photography, sketching, crafts, puppetry, cake decorating, any decorating.

3. Preparing for and teaching Celebration Place for the Celebrate Recovery children each week.

Who I love to work with most, and the age or type of people:

I prefer being with elementary aged children.

Church issues, ministries, or possible needs that excite or concern me the most:

Anything that involves the areas listed above.

*Mark the Top 3 from the list, that Trigger a Passion in You

Abortion/sanctity of Life
Abuse/violence
Educational
Other – worship

[A]bilities

My current vocation:

Retired Music Teacher/ Elementary school substitute teacher.

Other jobs I have experience in:

Office (phone, book keeping, telemarketing, …. ) for a carpet dyeing and cleaning company franchise, sales and book keeping for a fireworks stand, cake decorating, graphic arts (doing the annual for the schools where I taught)

Special talents/skills that I have:

Play piano, sing, play the recorder (Renaissance flute), photography, cake decorating, puppetry, directing theater, editing video/ photo, and music files, making power points, killing plants (haha made you laugh 🙂 ), over obsessing on lesson plans (my husband says), making learning fun for children.

I have taught a class or seminar on:

If you mean to adults… only on how to play the piano and the benefits of teaching piano to elementary students.
If you mean to children… there is not enough room here and I couldn’t remember it all.

I feel my most valuable personal asset is:

God’s love, passion, word, and creative spirit in my heart.

[P]ersonality

The personality traits that best fit me are:

50-50 Extrovert/Reserved

50-50 High/Low Risk

Challenger

Project Driven

50-50 Follower/Leader

Solo

50-50 Routine/Variety

1. 3 Likes Control 4 Enthusiastic 1 Sensitive 2 Reserved
2. 4 Firm 3 Energetic 1 Non-Demanding 2 Practical
3. 4 Likes Challenge 1 Promoter 2 Enjoys Routine 3 Factual
4. 3 Problem Solver 1 Mixes Easily 2 Relational 4 Perfectionistic
5. 3 Bold 1 Fun-Loving 2 Thoughtful 4 Detailed
6. 4 Goal Driven 1 Optimistic 2 Patient 3 Inquisitive
7. 4 Strong Willed 1 Motivator 2 Good Listener 3 Accurate
8. 1 Takes Charge 2 Very Verbal 4 Loyal 3 Predictable
9. 4 Determined 1 Popular 2 Dislikes Change 3 Orderly
10. 3 Competitive 1 Group Oriented 2 Sympathetic 4 Analytical
11. 4 Purposeful 1 Inspirational 2 Nurturing 3 Precise
12. 4 Action Oriented 2 Likes Change 1 Peace Maker 3 Scheduled
41 Total 19 Total 23 Total 37 Total

Your Primary was ‘The Lion’, with your Secondary coming in as ‘The Beaver’, and here are the descriptions of your Personalities, and how they can be used for God

Lion- This personality likes to lead. The lion is good at making decisions and is very goal-oriented. They enjoy challenges, difficult assignments, and opportunity for advancement. Because lions are thinking of the goal, they can step on people to reach it. Lions can be very aggressive and competitive. Lions must learn not to be too bossy or to take charge in other’s affairs.

Strength: Goal-oriented, strong, direct
Weakness: Argumentative, too dictatorial
Limitation: Doesn’t understand that directness can hurt others, hard time expressing grace

Beaver- Organized. Beavers think that there is a right way to do everything and they want to do it exactly that way. Beaver personalities are very creative. They desire to solve everything. Desire to take their time and do it right. Beavers do not like sudden changes. They need reassurance.

Strength: High standards, order, respect
Weakness: Unrealistic expectations of self & others, too perfect.
Limitation: Seeing the optimistic side of things, expressing flexibility

[E]xperience

My brief testimony of how I became a Christian

I was brought up in a home that was at church every time the door was open. I learned to love God and Christ at an early age. I was sprinkled as a baby and chose to be baptised when I was at the University. I’ve never written out a “testimony” or thought through “how I became a Christian”. It has been who I am as long as I can remember. Preachers seem to keep being a part of my life: my Jr. High/High School boyfriend became a Church of Christ preacher, his best friend was the son of the local Church of Christ preacher and also became a preacher; my mother became a Methodist lay preacher; my brother was a Methodist preacher; my son in Germany started an English speaking congregation and when we went, he was a preacher. Following Christ in a dedicated way is part of my experience and heritage.

Ministry Experience (Where I have served in the past, if applicable, including ChurchName, City/State, Position, Years Involved):

As an organist: Texas City, Texas- Methodist Church and Catholic Church. 1970-1975.

Bible Class Teacher: Church of Christ in (University) San Marcos & Chattanooga, TN. 1980-2000. Also, a deacon’s wife.

Music Ministry: Southside Baptist (choir) (2009-2012?) (deacon’s wife); Calvary Baptist (2012?- now) (choir, Kidspraise, Celebrate Recovery Celebration Place Ministry); Media team during VBS as photographer

List 3 Positive experiences from the past that made a big impact on who you are today:

FINE ARTS:
Music Lessons: I took piano and/or organ from 1st grade through the University years. I was also in or taught choir at school or church for most of my life.
VISUAL ARTS: Photography, creating teaching graphics, sketching, making props, costumes, sets… decorating…
The fine arts were my therapy when dealing with negative experiences in my life.

Teaching: I have taught in public school or at church since I was in Jr. High. (Instead of hiring a substitute, I often taught choir starting in Jr. High.) I have found that I prefer working with children instead of my peers as a teacher. My passion is teaching and bringing love, joy, self confidence, knowledge, and fun experiences to children. Seeing my students grow in knowledge, confidence, skill, joy, … watching them grow up over the years.

Loving my family: raising my sons, being with my family(especially my father), my grandchildren.

List 3 Negative Experiences from your past that have helped to Shape me, but also have given you great compassion for others going through similar circumstances:

Sexual Harassment: My older brother sexually harassed me for years and, I found out decades later, also one of my siblings. My 3rd son was sexually abused as a 2-3 year old at church by the preacher’s adopted daughter.

Abusive husband: I was married for 27 years to a man that was emotionally/verbally abusive to me, and when he was mad at me it only took him a few moments to find a reason to hit my sons.

Divorce: My husband started disappearing on weekends, not coming home from work and not telling me where he was or that he would not be coming home. One weekend when I had a school choir field trip, he did not come on the field trip as usual. When I called home to let him know that we were running late, I heard a high pitched voice answer the phone, then the phone rattling from changing hands, then his voice. I experienced this after months of him disappearing and years of him abusing our family.
My oldest son had announced his engagement, so I waited to take the steps for divorce. The divorce process took years.

Wrapping It Up

The Challenge: Based upon your S.H.A.P.E. Assessment above (the way God wired you), If you knew you couldn’t fail … and ‘lack of money, or time’ was not an obstacle… list your Top 3 Things you would ‘Focus’ your Life on, next to #1 Loving God & #2 Loving Your Neighbor (these would be your ‘3 God-Sized Dreams’ for your life)?

1. My Relationship with GOD

2. My Relationship with Others

  • Putting Your Spouse First
  • Your Kids Second
  • Everyone Else After those

3. All my children and grandchildren would have a relationship with Christ.

4. All my children and grandchildren would have a good relationship with each other.

5. All my children and grandchildren would have a good relationship with my husband and I.