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S.H.A.P.E. Assessment Results

Thank you Nicole Okwoche for taking the SHAPE Assessment. We encourage you to meet with a Church Leader that you respect, to go over your results, so that they can help you discover a place to serve in the church and/or community, and also to help you fine-tune your 5 Main Focuses/Priorities listed at the bottom of this email under the ‘Wrapping it up’ section. May God Bless You!

[S]piritual Gifts

Here is how your spiritual gifts scored (in alphabetical order):

Administration

75%

Evangelism

75%

Exhortation/Encouragement

90%

Giving

81%

Mercy Showing

46%

Prophecy

65%

Pastoring/Shepherding

71%

Serving

25%

Teaching

87%

To see descriptions on the Spiritual Gifts and how you can use them to further Christ’s Kingdom on earth, visit this link.

#1 Gift, Exhortation/Encouragement (90%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I’m often encouraging or directing those around me.

#2 Gift, Teaching (87%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I enjoy empowering others and typically that’s done with teaching.

#3 Gift, Giving (81%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I enjoy giving. Not much else to it.

[H]eart

Three things I love to do that bring joy and fulfillment in my life:

1. Helping others to reach their full potential.

2. Spending quality time with family and friends.

3. Providing Counseling to individuals and family who are struggling with mental health or faith based issues.

Who I love to work with most, and the age or type of people:

Teen girls (12+), women (18-50). I enjoy working with men or women who are business leaders.

Church issues, ministries, or possible needs that excite or concern me the most:

Discipleship Classes, Youth ministry, Women’s ministry, Media ministry

*Mark the Top 3 from the list, that Trigger a Passion in You

Marriage/family issues
Spiritual laziness
At-risk children

[A]bilities

My current vocation:

Individual and Family Therapist. I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker.

Other jobs I have experience in:

Case Management (Foster Care), Disability Benefits, Program Management and Evaluation

Special talents/skills that I have:

Videography, Video Editing, developing new programs

I have taught a class or seminar on:

Mental Health Issues (Depression, Suicide), Identity in Christ.

I feel my most valuable personal asset is:

My heartbeat for God.

[P]ersonality

The personality traits that best fit me are:

50-50 Extrovert/Reserved

High Risk

Challenger

50-50 People/Project Driven

Leader

Solo

Routine

1. 4 Likes Control 3 Enthusiastic 2 Sensitive 1 Reserved
2. 3 Firm 1 Energetic 4 Non-Demanding 2 Practical
3. 4 Likes Challenge 3 Promoter 2 Enjoys Routine 1 Factual
4. 3 Problem Solver 2 Mixes Easily 4 Relational 1 Perfectionistic
5. 4 Bold 3 Fun-Loving 2 Thoughtful 1 Detailed
6. 4 Goal Driven 3 Optimistic 1 Patient 2 Inquisitive
7. 2 Strong Willed 4 Motivator 3 Good Listener 1 Accurate
8. 3 Takes Charge 2 Very Verbal 4 Loyal 1 Predictable
9. 4 Determined 2 Popular 1 Dislikes Change 3 Orderly
10. 3 Competitive 2 Group Oriented 4 Sympathetic 1 Analytical
11. 4 Purposeful 3 Inspirational 2 Nurturing 1 Precise
12. 4 Action Oriented 3 Likes Change 2 Peace Maker 1 Scheduled
42 Total 31 Total 31 Total 16 Total

Your Primary was ‘The Lion’, with your Secondary coming in as ‘The Otter’, and here are the descriptions of your Personalities, and how they can be used for God

Lion- This personality likes to lead. The lion is good at making decisions and is very goal-oriented. They enjoy challenges, difficult assignments, and opportunity for advancement. Because lions are thinking of the goal, they can step on people to reach it. Lions can be very aggressive and competitive. Lions must learn not to be too bossy or to take charge in other’s affairs.

Strength: Goal-oriented, strong, direct
Weakness: Argumentative, too dictatorial
Limitation: Doesn’t understand that directness can hurt others, hard time expressing grace

Otter- Otters are very social creature. Otter personalities love people. They enjoys being popular and influencing and motivating others. Otter can sometimes be hurt when people do not like them. Otter personalities usually have lots of friends, but not deep relationships. They love to goof-off. (They are notorious for messy rooms.) Otters like to hurry and finish jobs. (Jobs are not often done well.) The otter personality is like Tigger in Winnie The Pooh.

Strength: People person, open, positive
Weakness: Talks too much, too permissive
Limitation: Remembering past commitments, follow through with discipline

[E]xperience

My brief testimony of how I became a Christian

I said the prayer of salvation and was baptised when I was 8, but Its hard to pinpoint when I actually became a believer.

Ministry Experience (Where I have served in the past, if applicable, including ChurchName, City/State, Position, Years Involved):

I helped to run the youth ministry at Trailblazers International Christian Center in Baltimore, MD. I also started and oversaw the media/tv ministry there as well. All this was from 2011-2015.

List 3 Positive experiences from the past that made a big impact on who you are today:

Fasting in 2011–It was my first fast. I did the daniel fast for 21 days and many things that i’d been praying for deliverance from took place during that time. I received clarity on the next steps God wanted me to take and a few weeks later I met my husband.

Meeting my husband in 2011 and marrying him in 2014.

Starting seminary in 2016 and continuing to take classes to this day has completely shifted and deepened my love for and understanding of Christ.

List 3 Negative Experiences from your past that have helped to Shape me, but also have given you great compassion for others going through similar circumstances:

I engage in a lot of self-sabotaging behaviors as a teen and young adult trying to cope with my pain. Unfortunately I didn’t have the help or support to be able to respond to things it healthy ways so it’s my goal to be a support to teen girls who don’t have adults in their life who can support and encourage them.

Having 2 miscarriages has completely shifted my outlook on children, pregnancy, and those who have gone through the same thing. I wasn’t as sympathetic in the past but because of my experiences I have a lot of empathy and compassion for those in similar situations.

My parents divorcing when I was 12 and all the after effects of that situation, gives me a lot of compassion for families, especially youth in similar situations.

Wrapping It Up

The Challenge: Based upon your S.H.A.P.E. Assessment above (the way God wired you), If you knew you couldn’t fail … and ‘lack of money, or time’ was not an obstacle… list your Top 3 Things you would ‘Focus’ your Life on, next to #1 Loving God & #2 Loving Your Neighbor (these would be your ‘3 God-Sized Dreams’ for your life)?

1. My Relationship with GOD

2. My Relationship with Others

  • Putting Your Spouse First
  • Your Kids Second
  • Everyone Else After those

3. Develop a program for women and teens to better understand their Identity in Christ that could be used globally.

4. To create a professional Chrisitan/Social documentary.

5. Open up youth/wellness centers in various cities similar to the one I went to when I was younger.