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S.H.A.P.E. Assessment Results

Thank you Nancy Petroff for taking the SHAPE Assessment. We encourage you to meet with a Church Leader that you respect, to go over your results, so that they can help you discover a place to serve in the church and/or community, and also to help you fine-tune your 5 Main Focuses/Priorities listed at the bottom of this email under the ‘Wrapping it up’ section. May God Bless You!

[S]piritual Gifts

Here is how your spiritual gifts scored:

Administration

46%

Evangelism

25%

Exhortation/Encouragement

25%

Giving

40%

Mercy Showing

15%

Prophecy

18%

Pastoring/Shepherding

9%

Serving

96%

Teaching

31%

To see descriptions on the Spiritual Gifts and how you can use them to further Christ’s Kingdom on earth, visit this link.

#1 Gift, Serving (96%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I love to help and serve and be behind the scenes in ministry

#2 Gift, Administration (46%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
My job is in administration. Love to plan, organize and serve at events

#3 Gift, Giving (40%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
Give joyfully to the Lord. If I could give more I would.

[H]eart

Three things I love to do that bring joy and fulfillment in my life:

1. Love raising my children and teaching them God’s truths. Would love to help others with adoption

2. Love to help marriages and pre-marriage

3. Love being with people and serving others

Who I love to work with most, and the age or type of people:

couples & families. marriage and family ministry, and children

Church issues, ministries, or possible needs that excite or concern me the most:

Adoption, marriage and family

*Mark the Top 3 from the list, that Trigger a Passion in You

Marriage/family issues
Parenting
Other – Adoption

[A]bilities

My current vocation:

Administrative assistant

Other jobs I have experience in:

accounting, purchasing

Special talents/skills that I have:

I have taught a class or seminar on:

marriage, parenting

I feel my most valuable personal asset is:

[P]ersonality

The personality traits that best fit me are:

Extrovert

Low Risk

Peace Maker

People Driven

Follower

Team

50-50 Routine/Variety

1. 2 Likes Control 3 Enthusiastic 4 Sensitive 1 Reserved
2. 1 Firm 2 Energetic 4 Non-Demanding 3 Practical
3. 3 Likes Challenge 2 Promoter 4 Enjoys Routine 1 Factual
4. 2 Problem Solver 3 Mixes Easily 4 Relational 1 Perfectionistic
5. 2 Bold 3 Fun-Loving 4 Thoughtful 1 Detailed
6. 2 Goal Driven 4 Optimistic 3 Patient 1 Inquisitive
7. 3 Strong Willed 1 Motivator 4 Good Listener 2 Accurate
8. 1 Takes Charge 2 Very Verbal 4 Loyal 3 Predictable
9. 2 Determined 4 Popular 3 Dislikes Change 1 Orderly
10. 2 Competitive 4 Group Oriented 3 Sympathetic 1 Analytical
11. 2 Purposeful 3 Inspirational 4 Nurturing 1 Precise
12. 1 Action Oriented 3 Likes Change 4 Peace Maker 2 Scheduled
23 Total 34 Total 45 Total 18 Total

Your Primary was ‘The Retriever’, with your Secondary coming in as ‘The Otter’, and here are the descriptions of your Personalities, and how they can be used for God

Golden Retriever- Good at making friends. Very loyal. Retriever personalities do not like big changes. They look for security. Can be very sensitive. Very caring. Has deep relationships, but usually only a couple of close friends. Wants to be loved by everyone. Looks for appreciation. Works best in a limited situation with a steady work pattern.

Strength: Accommodating, calm, affirming
Weakness: Indecisive, indifferent, unable to express emotional, too soft on other people
Limitation: Seeing the need to be more assertive, holding others accountable

Otter- Otters are very social creature. Otter personalities love people. They enjoys being popular and influencing and motivating others. Otter can sometimes be hurt when people do not like them. Otter personalities usually have lots of friends, but not deep relationships. They love to goof-off. (They are notorious for messy rooms.) Otters like to hurry and finish jobs. (Jobs are not often done well.) The otter personality is like Tigger in Winnie The Pooh.

Strength: People person, open, positive
Weakness: Talks too much, too permissive
Limitation: Remembering past commitments, follow through with discipline

[E]xperience

My brief testimony of how I became a Christian

In 1994 I felt a tug on my heart that there was more to life. I started attending a women’s bible study and met some wonderful ladies who are still a part of my life today. The leader of the study became my mentor and a great friend. I also met another gal who became my life long prayer partner! I don’t remember the specific day I accepted the Lord as my savior but it was during that year during a bible study.

Ministry Experience (Where I have served in the past, if applicable, including ChurchName, City/State, Position, Years Involved):

First Friends Church- marriage and family ministry, pre-marriage mentoring – 20 years

List 3 Positive experiences from the past that made a big impact on who you are today:

Adopting 2 children

serving on the marriage & family ministry team at my church

working on staff at the church

List 3 Negative Experiences from your past that have helped to Shape me, but also have given you great compassion for others going through similar circumstances:

Marriage issues

Infertility

Problems with adoption process

Wrapping It Up

The Challenge: Based upon your S.H.A.P.E. Assessment above (the way God wired you), If you knew you couldn’t fail … and ‘lack of money, or time’ was not an obstacle… list your Top 3 Things you would ‘Focus’ your Life on, next to #1 Loving God & #2 Loving Your Neighbor (these would be your ‘3 God-Sized Dreams’ for your life)?

1. My Relationship with GOD

2. My Relationship with Others

  • Putting Your Spouse First
  • Your Kids Second
  • Everyone Else After those

3. Teaching and traveling with my children to see the world and to serve others

4. Missions trips (orphanages) and to help others to adopt (financially or in other ways)

5.