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S.H.A.P.E. Assessment Results

Thank you Bolupe Kowell for taking the SHAPE Assessment. We encourage you to meet with a Church Leader that you respect, to go over your results, so that they can help you discover a place to serve in the church and/or community, and also to help you fine-tune your 5 Main Focuses/Priorities listed at the bottom of this email under the ‘Wrapping it up’ section. May God Bless You!

[S]piritual Gifts

Here is how your spiritual gifts scored (in alphabetical order):

Administration

15%

Evangelism

43%

Exhortation/Encouragement

62%

Giving

81%

Mercy Showing

71%

Prophecy

25%

Pastoring/Shepherding

21%

Serving

75%

Teaching

53%

To see descriptions on the Spiritual Gifts and how you can use them to further Christ’s Kingdom on earth, visit this link.

#1 Gift, Giving (81%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I’ve always had a natural desire to give—it’s just how I’m wired.

#2 Gift, Serving (75%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I grew to love serving through my time living in my pastor’s house—it shaped my perspective and gave me a genuine passion for helping others.

#3 Gift, Mercy Showing (71%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I think it comes from a place of empathy—I naturally feel for others and want to help ease their pain.

[H]eart

Three things I love to do that bring joy and fulfillment in my life:

1. Giving: I find joy in giving to others—it’s fulfilling to know that I can make a difference in someone’s life, even in small ways.

2. Listening: I love hearing people share their stories and thoughts. Listening not only deepens my understanding but also makes them feel valued.

3. Helping Others: It brings me genuine happiness to support others, especially when they’re struggling. Being there for someone in their time of need feels truly rewarding.

Who I love to work with most, and the age or type of people:

I enjoy working with people who are positive, open-minded, and willing to learn. I especially love engaging with individuals who appreciate kindness and teamwork.

Church issues, ministries, or possible needs that excite or concern me the most:

When money isn’t the problem and everything runs smoothly.

*Mark the Top 3 from the list, that Trigger a Passion in You

Abortion/sanctity of Life
Homelessness
Marriage/family issues
Poverty/hunger
Abuse/violence

[A]bilities

My current vocation:

Catering, Singing and content creation

Other jobs I have experience in:

Acting and writing

Special talents/skills that I have:

Writing stories
Cooking
Acting
Singing

I have taught a class or seminar on:

Cooking

I feel my most valuable personal asset is:

Cooking

[P]ersonality

The personality traits that best fit me are:

Extrovert

Low Risk

Peace Maker

People Driven

Follower

Solo

Variety

1. 2 Likes Control 4 Enthusiastic 3 Sensitive 1 Reserved
2. 1 Firm 2 Energetic 4 Non-Demanding 3 Practical
3. 1 Likes Challenge 3 Promoter 2 Enjoys Routine 4 Factual
4. 2 Problem Solver 4 Mixes Easily 3 Relational 1 Perfectionistic
5. 2 Bold 4 Fun-Loving 3 Thoughtful 1 Detailed
6. 1 Goal Driven 4 Optimistic 3 Patient 2 Inquisitive
7. 3 Strong Willed 4 Motivator 2 Good Listener 1 Accurate
8. 1 Takes Charge 3 Very Verbal 4 Loyal 2 Predictable
9. 2 Determined 4 Popular 3 Dislikes Change 1 Orderly
10. 2 Competitive 4 Group Oriented 3 Sympathetic 1 Analytical
11. 3 Purposeful 4 Inspirational 2 Nurturing 1 Precise
12. 3 Action Oriented 2 Likes Change 4 Peace Maker 1 Scheduled
21 Total 42 Total 36 Total 19 Total

Your Primary was ‘The Otter’, with your Secondary coming in as ‘The Retriever’, and here are the descriptions of your Personalities, and how they can be used for God

Otter- Otters are very social creature. Otter personalities love people. They enjoys being popular and influencing and motivating others. Otter can sometimes be hurt when people do not like them. Otter personalities usually have lots of friends, but not deep relationships. They love to goof-off. (They are notorious for messy rooms.) Otters like to hurry and finish jobs. (Jobs are not often done well.) The otter personality is like Tigger in Winnie The Pooh.

Strength: People person, open, positive
Weakness: Talks too much, too permissive
Limitation: Remembering past commitments, follow through with discipline

Golden Retriever- Good at making friends. Very loyal. Retriever personalities do not like big changes. They look for security. Can be very sensitive. Very caring. Has deep relationships, but usually only a couple of close friends. Wants to be loved by everyone. Looks for appreciation. Works best in a limited situation with a steady work pattern.

Strength: Accommodating, calm, affirming
Weakness: Indecisive, indifferent, unable to express emotional, too soft on other people
Limitation: Seeing the need to be more assertive, holding others accountable

[E]xperience

My brief testimony of how I became a Christian

On a rural rigged evangelism that I was kind of forced to go. Then, I engaged in a long conversation with a man, who I eventually told my story to. And he ended up leading me to Christ

Ministry Experience (Where I have served in the past, if applicable, including ChurchName, City/State, Position, Years Involved):

Christ Apostolic church
Ile-Ife, Osun State
Children choir
First 16 years of my life

Redeemed Christian Center
Abuja, FCT
Choir
2 years

Metamorphosis Christian Center
Abuja, FCT
Hospitality and worship
15 years

List 3 Positive experiences from the past that made a big impact on who you are today:

Growing Up on a Poultry Farm: my hands-on experience from a young age likely instilled responsibility, and resilience.

Becoming a Teenage Mother: This life-changing experience could have strengthened my sense of empathy, perseverance, and the ability to nurture and care deeply for others.

Living in my Pastor’s House: This experience likely shaped my heart for serving and taught me the value of helping others with love and humility.

List 3 Negative Experiences from your past that have helped to Shape me, but also have given you great compassion for others going through similar circumstances:

Facing stigma and rejection as a Teenage Mother: This likely taught me resilience and gave me deep empathy for others facing challenging circumstances.

Experiencing Rejection or Judgment from people I love: Perhaps, faced misunderstanding or criticism, which helped me develop kindness and patience toward those who feel marginalized.

Struggling with Financial or Emotional Difficulties: Going through tough times financially or emotionally often builds strength and compassion for others in similar struggles.

Wrapping It Up

The Challenge: Based upon your S.H.A.P.E. Assessment above (the way God wired you), If you knew you couldn’t fail … and ‘lack of money, or time’ was not an obstacle… list your Top 3 Things you would ‘Focus’ your Life on, next to #1 Loving God & #2 Loving Your Neighbor (these would be your ‘3 God-Sized Dreams’ for your life)?

1. My Relationship with GOD

2. My Relationship with Others

  • Putting Your Spouse First
  • Your Kids Second
  • Everyone Else After those

3. Have a huge center, that I build for pregnant teenagers and teenage mothers. Feeding, shelter, empowerment.

4. Also building a film villa. That everything to make a film from start to finish is already there.

5. Build a center for 24 hours constant worship and prayer