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S.H.A.P.E. Assessment Results

Thank you Oneika Stokes for taking the SHAPE Assessment. We encourage you to meet with a Church Leader that you respect, to go over your results, so that they can help you discover a place to serve in the church and/or community, and also to help you fine-tune your 5 Main Focuses/Priorities listed at the bottom of this email under the ‘Wrapping it up’ section. May God Bless You!

[S]piritual Gifts

Here is how your spiritual gifts scored:

Administration

37%

Evangelism

56%

Exhortation/Encouragement

43%

Giving

87%

Mercy Showing

31%

Prophecy

40%

Pastoring/Shepherding

43%

Serving

56%

Teaching

75%

To see descriptions on the Spiritual Gifts and how you can use them to further Christ’s Kingdom on earth, visit this link.

#1 Gift, Giving (87%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I enjoy giving money to people in need or giving gifts to others to make them smile

#2 Gift, Teaching (75%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I like explaining God’s word and help people understand it

#3 Gift, Evangelism (56%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I want to everyone saved and go to heaven

[H]eart

Three things I love to do that bring joy and fulfillment in my life:

1. I like to shop for others and give to others

2. I enjoy entertaining or having people over for dinner. I enjoy fellowshipping with others

3. i like to do physical activity like play team sports or workout with friends

Who I love to work with most, and the age or type of people:

I like to work with youth (middle school-high school (12-18) and young adults (college students (18-24) and adults (25-45)

Church issues, ministries, or possible needs that excite or concern me the most:

Marriage ministry, youth ministry, and women ministry

*Mark the Top 3 from the list, that Trigger a Passion in You

Marriage/family issues
Financial stewardship
Health/fitness

[A]bilities

My current vocation:

unemployed food scientist

Other jobs I have experience in:

developing recipes, business to business sales, customer service, business consulting

Special talents/skills that I have:

cooking, planning a party/entertaining

I have taught a class or seminar on:

Food sensory

I feel my most valuable personal asset is:

Making someone feel welcome

[P]ersonality

The personality traits that best fit me are:

Extrovert

Low Risk

Peace Maker

People Driven

Leader

Team

Variety

1. 3 Likes Control 4 Enthusiastic 1 Sensitive 2 Reserved
2. 1 Firm 4 Energetic 2 Non-Demanding 3 Practical
3. 4 Likes Challenge 3 Promoter 1 Enjoys Routine 2 Factual
4. 2 Problem Solver 3 Mixes Easily 4 Relational 1 Perfectionistic
5. 1 Bold 3 Fun-Loving 4 Thoughtful 2 Detailed
6. 3 Goal Driven 4 Optimistic 1 Patient 2 Inquisitive
7. 2 Strong Willed 3 Motivator 4 Good Listener 1 Accurate
8. 2 Takes Charge 3 Very Verbal 4 Loyal 1 Predictable
9. 2 Determined 4 Popular 1 Dislikes Change 3 Orderly
10. 2 Competitive 4 Group Oriented 3 Sympathetic 1 Analytical
11. 3 Purposeful 4 Inspirational 2 Nurturing 1 Precise
12. 3 Action Oriented 4 Likes Change 2 Peace Maker 1 Scheduled
28 Total 43 Total 29 Total 20 Total

Your Primary was ‘The Otter’, with your Secondary coming in as ‘The Retriever’, and here are the descriptions of your Personalities, and how they can be used for God

Otter- Otters are very social creature. Otter personalities love people. They enjoys being popular and influencing and motivating others. Otter can sometimes be hurt when people do not like them. Otter personalities usually have lots of friends, but not deep relationships. They love to goof-off. (They are notorious for messy rooms.) Otters like to hurry and finish jobs. (Jobs are not often done well.) The otter personality is like Tigger in Winnie The Pooh.

Strength: People person, open, positive
Weakness: Talks too much, too permissive
Limitation: Remembering past commitments, follow through with discipline

Golden Retriever- Good at making friends. Very loyal. Retriever personalities do not like big changes. They look for security. Can be very sensitive. Very caring. Has deep relationships, but usually only a couple of close friends. Wants to be loved by everyone. Looks for appreciation. Works best in a limited situation with a steady work pattern.

Strength: Accommodating, calm, affirming
Weakness: Indecisive, indifferent, unable to express emotional, too soft on other people
Limitation: Seeing the need to be more assertive, holding others accountable

[E]xperience

My brief testimony of how I became a Christian

I grew up in the church and when I went to college I occasionally went to church. In 2008 I had a rough breakup, I couldn’t find a job after graduation, and I had moved to a new city. I really had to return to my roots and get connected to God. I decided to get rededicate my life to Christ and get baptized for the first time on 9/28/2008.

Ministry Experience (Where I have served in the past, if applicable, including ChurchName, City/State, Position, Years Involved):

I was in young adult ministry at Zion Missionary Baptist church in Atlanta (1 year)
I was in young adult and small group at Destiny Church (2 years)

I was a usher, youth ministry leader, and covenant couples (marriage ministry) at Christian Faith Fellowship in Zion, IL (5 years)
Financial Peace member Cross Point Newport, RI (10 months)

Military Spouse Small group (6 months-present)- New Hope Community Church, Chula Vista, CA

List 3 Positive experiences from the past that made a big impact on who you are today:

Listening to God and returning to Chicagoland area to work and go back to my hometown church.

Completing Ministerial Prep, I learned so much about the church, Bible, ministries, and I was able to learn how defend my faith.

Time of prayer and fasting before I started dating my now husband.

List 3 Negative Experiences from your past that have helped to Shape me, but also have given you great compassion for others going through similar circumstances:

Living in Atlanta was a time where I was so back in forth with God, I was lost, doing things that I knew I shouldn’t have been doing.

Having two abortions were devastating to me they were 4 years apart but I was so lost and confused at the time.

My grandmother being killed in a car accident right in front of me. I was crushed because that is who I called mom, that is who raised me, and I couldn’t imagine my life without her.

Wrapping It Up

The Challenge: Based upon your S.H.A.P.E. Assessment above (the way God wired you), If you knew you couldn’t fail … and ‘lack of money, or time’ was not an obstacle… list your Top 3 Things you would ‘Focus’ your Life on, next to #1 Loving God & #2 Loving Your Neighbor (these would be your ‘3 God-Sized Dreams’ for your life)?

1. My Relationship with GOD

2. My Relationship with Others

  • Putting Your Spouse First
  • Your Kids Second
  • Everyone Else After those

3. Own a successful business that fed the world and taught people how to run a business using biblical principles

4. Start a workout/health ministry at church, that had group workout classes with worship music, open up in prayer and end in prayer, kid care, and health/nutrition planning

5. I would travel the world and giving money and education to people in need