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S.H.A.P.E. Assessment Results

Thank you Patricia Day for taking the SHAPE Assessment. We encourage you to meet with a Church Leader that you respect, to go over your results, so that they can help you discover a place to serve in the church and/or community, and also to help you fine-tune your 5 Main Focuses/Priorities listed at the bottom of this email under the ‘Wrapping it up’ section. May God Bless You!

[S]piritual Gifts

Here is how your spiritual gifts scored (in alphabetical order):

Administration

81%

Evangelism

93%

Exhortation/Encouragement

93%

Giving

87%

Mercy Showing

93%

Prophecy

50%

Pastoring/Shepherding

62%

Serving

37%

Teaching

81%

To see descriptions on the Spiritual Gifts and how you can use them to further Christ’s Kingdom on earth, visit this link.

#1 Gift, Evangelism (93%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
God speaks to me through his word.

#2 Gift, Exhortation/Encouragement (93%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
God has given me the gift of empathy which allows me to easily connect with others.

#3 Gift, Mercy Showing (93%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
Through my trials God has shown me that no matter the circumstance, we are all his children and we all deserve love, and forgiveness.

[H]eart

Three things I love to do that bring joy and fulfillment in my life:

1. Spending time with family, and sharing how God has worked in my life.

2. Working in hospice and senior placement, God uses me to help the less fortunate and share my testimony to bring others to know him.

3. Reading my Bible, and watching Joyce ministries. This is how I start my mornings, and prepare for the day.

Who I love to work with most, and the age or type of people:

Seniors 65+, the indigent and overlooked population of our society.

Church issues, ministries, or possible needs that excite or concern me the most:

I love Joyce Meyers, and her ability to share God’s word in a way that resonates among all walks of life.

*Mark the Top 3 from the list, that Trigger a Passion in You

Homelessness
Drug abuse/recovery
Other – Senior citizen safety

[A]bilities

My current vocation:

Hospice Care Consultant

Other jobs I have experience in:

Placement, Marketing, Leadership

Special talents/skills that I have:

Healthcare professional for over 20 years, I started my career as a Respiratory Therapist

I have taught a class or seminar on:

I have not taught, but have gone through Celebrate Recovery to overcome past abuse.

I feel my most valuable personal asset is:

Empathy, the ability to connect with others

[P]ersonality

The personality traits that best fit me are:

Extrovert

High Risk

Peace Maker

People Driven

Leader

Team

Variety

1. 2 Likes Control 4 Enthusiastic 3 Sensitive 1 Reserved
2. 1 Firm 4 Energetic 3 Non-Demanding 2 Practical
3. 3 Likes Challenge 4 Promoter 1 Enjoys Routine 2 Factual
4. 4 Problem Solver 3 Mixes Easily 2 Relational 1 Perfectionistic
5. 1 Bold 2 Fun-Loving 3 Thoughtful 4 Detailed
6. 3 Goal Driven 4 Optimistic 1 Patient 2 Inquisitive
7. 1 Strong Willed 4 Motivator 3 Good Listener 2 Accurate
8. 4 Takes Charge 3 Very Verbal 2 Loyal 1 Predictable
9. 3 Determined 4 Popular 1 Dislikes Change 2 Orderly
10. 3 Competitive 2 Group Oriented 4 Sympathetic 1 Analytical
11. 3 Purposeful 4 Inspirational 1 Nurturing 2 Precise
12. 4 Action Oriented 3 Likes Change 2 Peace Maker 1 Scheduled
32 Total 41 Total 25 Total 21 Total

Your Primary was ‘The Otter’, with your Secondary coming in as ‘The Lion’, and here are the descriptions of your Personalities, and how they can be used for God

Otter- Otters are very social creature. Otter personalities love people. They enjoys being popular and influencing and motivating others. Otter can sometimes be hurt when people do not like them. Otter personalities usually have lots of friends, but not deep relationships. They love to goof-off. (They are notorious for messy rooms.) Otters like to hurry and finish jobs. (Jobs are not often done well.) The otter personality is like Tigger in Winnie The Pooh.

Strength: People person, open, positive
Weakness: Talks too much, too permissive
Limitation: Remembering past commitments, follow through with discipline

Lion- This personality likes to lead. The lion is good at making decisions and is very goal-oriented. They enjoy challenges, difficult assignments, and opportunity for advancement. Because lions are thinking of the goal, they can step on people to reach it. Lions can be very aggressive and competitive. Lions must learn not to be too bossy or to take charge in other’s affairs.

Strength: Goal-oriented, strong, direct
Weakness: Argumentative, too dictatorial
Limitation: Doesn’t understand that directness can hurt others, hard time expressing grace

[E]xperience

My brief testimony of how I became a Christian

My father was manic bipolar, and our family suffered under his physical and verbal abuse, it was my mother that gave us the foundation of God’s word, taking us to church regularly. Married at 19, I began having grand mal seizures after the birth of my son, I was 20 years old. I took my abusive patterns from childhood and carried them into my marriage which created a tumultuous home, after becoming pregnant a second time at 23, I knew I had to make changes, we couldn’t afford to support the child we had let alone a secondly, we placed this second child for adoption. I began counseling after the adoption and began making changes to better my life. My marriage ended after 15 years, and began focusing on my career, I had become the Director of Patient Services at a very respected Sleep Center, when my son began his struggle with drugs, during this time I was also diagnosed with effusive pericarditis. If it weren’t for God I would have never survived this time in my life. This is truly when the Holy Spirit worked within me to strengthen my relationship with God. Fast forward to today, and at 50 yo I will be getting a pacemaker due to the damage caused by my chronic health condition. But through this all I am optimistic and hopeful for God continues to guide me and uses me in my nee role as Hospice Care Consultant to help others.

Ministry Experience (Where I have served in the past, if applicable, including ChurchName, City/State, Position, Years Involved):

List 3 Positive experiences from the past that made a big impact on who you are today:

My son, and seeing God work in his life

Going through Celebrate Recovery

Achieving Director roles that allow me to implement change and impact company culture

List 3 Negative Experiences from your past that have helped to Shape me, but also have given you great compassion for others going through similar circumstances:

My personal health struggles with Epilepsy, Chronic Effusive Pericarditis, and Bradycardia.

Adoption

Abuse

Wrapping It Up

The Challenge: Based upon your S.H.A.P.E. Assessment above (the way God wired you), If you knew you couldn’t fail … and ‘lack of money, or time’ was not an obstacle… list your Top 3 Things you would ‘Focus’ your Life on, next to #1 Loving God & #2 Loving Your Neighbor (these would be your ‘3 God-Sized Dreams’ for your life)?

1. My Relationship with GOD

2. My Relationship with Others

  • Putting Your Spouse First
  • Your Kids Second
  • Everyone Else After those

3. Public speaking sharing my testimony

4. Writing a book about my journey with God

5. Create a group home for seniors pending ALTCS where they could safely stay awaiting determination.