S.H.A.P.E. Assessment Results

Thank you Tiffany Morman for taking the SHAPE Assessment. We encourage you to meet with a Church Leader that you respect, to go over your results, so that they can help you discover a place to serve in the church and/or community, and also to help you fine-tune your 5 Main Focuses/Priorities listed at the bottom of this email under the ‘Wrapping it up’ section. May God Bless You!

[S]piritual Gifts

Here is how your spiritual gifts scored (in alphabetical order):

Administration

81%

Evangelism

56%

Exhortation/Encouragement

90%

Giving

50%

Mercy Showing

71%

Prophecy

50%

Pastoring/Shepherding

43%

Serving

75%

Teaching

53%

To see descriptions on the Spiritual Gifts and how you can use them to further Christ’s Kingdom on earth, visit this link.

#1 Gift, Exhortation/Encouragement (90%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
It was the calling of God “tell them how I set you free”

#2 Gift, Administration (81%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
This is my superpower: naturally organized.

#3 Gift, Serving (75%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I love to serve my family and other leaders to allow them to better complete their missions.

[H]eart

Three things I love to do that bring joy and fulfillment in my life:

1. Time with my family and a few trusted friends

2. My podcast

3. Writing

Who I love to work with most, and the age or type of people:

Those struggling with addictions & toxic behaviors 18 years and older

Church issues, ministries, or possible needs that excite or concern me the most:

The amount of church goers who struggle with toxic behavior patterns (gambling, smoking cigarettes, weed, alcohol, unhealthy relationships)

*Mark the Top 3 from the list, that Trigger a Passion in You

Drug abuse/recovery
Alcoholism
Compulsive behavior

[A]bilities

My current vocation:

Director of Case Management for a non-profit

Other jobs I have experience in:

Certified Addictions Counselor, Clinical Supervisor for inpatient, outpatient and substance abuse rehabs,
Foster Care Case Worker

Special talents/skills that I have:

I love to cook and entertain my family and friends & Teaching

I have taught a class or seminar on:

Various Addiction Education Topics

I feel my most valuable personal asset is:

Authenticity (what you see is what you get)
Transparency (my life is an open book to help others)
Organizational Skills

[P]ersonality

The personality traits that best fit me are:

Extrovert

Low Risk

Peace Maker

People Driven

Leader

Team

Routine

1. 4 Likes Control	3 Enthusiastic	2 Sensitive	1 Reserved
2. 4 Firm	2 Energetic	1 Non-Demanding	3 Practical
3. 1 Likes Challenge	2 Promoter	4 Enjoys Routine	3 Factual
4. 1 Problem Solver	2 Mixes Easily	4 Relational	3 Perfectionistic
5. 1 Bold	2 Fun-Loving	3 Thoughtful	4 Detailed
6. 4 Goal Driven	3 Optimistic	1 Patient	2 Inquisitive
7. 1 Strong Willed	4 Motivator	3 Good Listener	2 Accurate
8. 1 Takes Charge	2 Very Verbal	4 Loyal	3 Predictable
9. 2 Determined	1 Popular	3 Dislikes Change	4 Orderly
10. 2 Competitive	3 Group Oriented	4 Sympathetic	1 Analytical
11. 1 Purposeful	2 Inspirational	4 Nurturing	3 Precise
12. 2 Action Oriented	1 Likes Change	4 Peace Maker	3 Scheduled
24 Total	27 Total	37 Total	32 Total

Your Primary was ‘The Retriever’, with your Secondary coming in as ‘The Beaver’, and here are the descriptions of your Personalities, and how they can be used for God

Golden Retriever- Good at making friends. Very loyal. Retriever personalities do not like big changes. They look for security. Can be very sensitive. Very caring. Has deep relationships, but usually only a couple of close friends. Wants to be loved by everyone. Looks for appreciation. Works best in a limited situation with a steady work pattern.

Strength: Accommodating, calm, affirming
Weakness: Indecisive, indifferent, unable to express emotional, too soft on other people
Limitation: Seeing the need to be more assertive, holding others accountable

Beaver- Organized. Beavers think that there is a right way to do everything and they want to do it exactly that way. Beaver personalities are very creative. They desire to solve everything. Desire to take their time and do it right. Beavers do not like sudden changes. They need reassurance.

Strength: High standards, order, respect
Weakness: Unrealistic expectations of self & others, too perfect.
Limitation: Seeing the optimistic side of things, expressing flexibility

[E]xperience

My brief testimony of how I became a Christian

I was at my “rock bottom” had pneumonia in both lungs from living recklessly. My mom came and got me from my college campus, nursed me back to health and read the bible to me. I returned to campus and heard the holy spirit speak to me clearly “choose this day whom you will serve” 1995! The rest is history.

Ministry Experience (Where I have served in the past, if applicable, including ChurchName, City/State, Position, Years Involved):

Spencer UAME Church (NJ) Youth Leader 1997 (apx 3 years)
Friendship Mennonite Church (NJ) Youth Leader (about 4 years)
Family of Faith Church (DE) Co-Pastor (about 3 years)
Transformation Church (Dover) Led a women’s support group monthly (about 2 years)

List 3 Positive experiences from the past that made a big impact on who you are today:

Being a mom

Climbing the ladder at my secular job being a Christian and working closely with the LGBTQ+ community after God’ mandate to “accept them all and show them my love”

Me & my spouse’s story of restoration

List 3 Negative Experiences from your past that have helped to Shape me, but also have given you great compassion for others going through similar circumstances:

My parent’s divorce

Molestation & Sexual assault

Escaping the grips of addiction

Wrapping It Up

The Challenge: Based upon your S.H.A.P.E. Assessment above (the way God wired you), If you knew you couldn’t fail … and ‘lack of money, or time’ was not an obstacle… list your Top 3 Things you would ‘Focus’ your Life on, next to #1 Loving God & #2 Loving Your Neighbor (these would be your ‘3 God-Sized Dreams’ for your life)?

1. My Relationship with GOD

2. My Relationship with Others

Putting Your Spouse First
Your Kids Second
Everyone Else After those

3. Retire early

4. Focus on my addiction ministry (podcast & group)

5. monetize #3 and #4