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S.H.A.P.E. Assessment Results

Thank you Olutola Akinpelu for taking the SHAPE Assessment. We encourage you to meet with a Church Leader that you respect, to go over your results, so that they can help you discover a place to serve in the church and/or community, and also to help you fine-tune your 5 Main Focuses/Priorities listed at the bottom of this email under the ‘Wrapping it up’ section. May God Bless You!

[S]piritual Gifts

Here is how your spiritual gifts scored (in alphabetical order):

Administration

56%

Evangelism

37%

Exhortation/Encouragement

78%

Giving

65%

Mercy Showing

81%

Prophecy

43%

Pastoring/Shepherding

56%

Serving

81%

Teaching

59%

To see descriptions on the Spiritual Gifts and how you can use them to further Christ’s Kingdom on earth, visit this link.

#1 Gift, Mercy Showing (81%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I find that I always put myself in others’ shoes often feeling dejected when some people make some critical life mistakes or when I find people struggling to get things that I can easily afford/own.

#2 Gift, Serving (81%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I always find myself involved in church administrative, even when I have to squeeze out the time. I find myself doing this beyond the church setting, it’s quite evident in my professional and personal life.

#3 Gift, Exhortation/Encouragement (78%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
People tend to come to me for counsel and I find that giving them advice comes easily to me even when I\’ve never been in that situation in the past and my advice tends to work out well.

[H]eart

Three things I love to do that bring joy and fulfillment in my life:

1. Making people smile.

2. Reading.

3. Food.

Who I love to work with most, and the age or type of people:

13-65.

Church issues, ministries, or possible needs that excite or concern me the most:

The fact that some pastors make Ministry difficult with the scandals, demands and doctrines.

*Mark the Top 3 from the list, that Trigger a Passion in You

Poverty/hunger
Compulsive behavior
Abuse/violence

[A]bilities

My current vocation:

Satellite & Security Systems Integrator.

Other jobs I have experience in:

Golf Pro Shop Administration, Teaching.

Special talents/skills that I have:

I have taught a class or seminar on:

HIV/AIDS, abstinence and malaria

I feel my most valuable personal asset is:

My ability to compartmentalize and forget.

[P]ersonality

The personality traits that best fit me are:

Reserved

Low Risk

50-50 Peace Maker/Challenger

People Driven

50-50 Follower/Leader

Variety

1. 4 Likes Control 3 Enthusiastic 1 Sensitive 2 Reserved
2. 1 Firm 3 Energetic 2 Non-Demanding 4 Practical
3. 4 Likes Challenge 1 Promoter 2 Enjoys Routine 3 Factual
4. 4 Problem Solver 2 Mixes Easily 3 Relational 1 Perfectionistic
5. 2 Bold 4 Fun-Loving 3 Thoughtful 1 Detailed
6. 1 Goal Driven 4 Optimistic 3 Patient 2 Inquisitive
7. 3 Strong Willed 2 Motivator 4 Good Listener 1 Accurate
8. 2 Takes Charge 3 Very Verbal 4 Loyal 1 Predictable
9. 4 Determined 1 Popular 2 Dislikes Change 3 Orderly
10. 1 Competitive 2 Group Oriented 4 Sympathetic 3 Analytical
11. 2 Purposeful 1 Inspirational 4 Nurturing 3 Precise
12. 2 Action Oriented 1 Likes Change 4 Peace Maker 3 Scheduled
30 Total 27 Total 33 Total 27 Total

Your Primary was ‘The Retriever’, with your Secondary coming in as ‘The Lion’, and here are the descriptions of your Personalities, and how they can be used for God

Golden Retriever- Good at making friends. Very loyal. Retriever personalities do not like big changes. They look for security. Can be very sensitive. Very caring. Has deep relationships, but usually only a couple of close friends. Wants to be loved by everyone. Looks for appreciation. Works best in a limited situation with a steady work pattern.

Strength: Accommodating, calm, affirming
Weakness: Indecisive, indifferent, unable to express emotional, too soft on other people
Limitation: Seeing the need to be more assertive, holding others accountable

Lion- This personality likes to lead. The lion is good at making decisions and is very goal-oriented. They enjoy challenges, difficult assignments, and opportunity for advancement. Because lions are thinking of the goal, they can step on people to reach it. Lions can be very aggressive and competitive. Lions must learn not to be too bossy or to take charge in other’s affairs.

Strength: Goal-oriented, strong, direct
Weakness: Argumentative, too dictatorial
Limitation: Doesn’t understand that directness can hurt others, hard time expressing grace

[E]xperience

My brief testimony of how I became a Christian

I gave my life to Christ at a high school extra-curricular fellowship on a friday afternoon in 2003, I can\’t really remember the message but i remember that i realized in that moment that I haven’t been living right and i needed a change of heart.

Ministry Experience (Where I have served in the past, if applicable, including ChurchName, City/State, Position, Years Involved):

Multimedia -RCCG, City Of Goshen, Onike, Lagos. 2014-2018.

List 3 Positive experiences from the past that made a big impact on who you are today:

Circa 2011, I had an accommodation problem along with a family friend, he knew this man who was married with a kid took us in, the man didn’t really know me. The man took us in and we loved with him for over a year and he took care of our needs all that period.

One fateful day, during my childhood, somewhere between ages 7 and 9, my big sister lighted a a coil (an insecticide with a fragrance) and hung it to the ceiling of the room we share with our other siblings.
In the middle of the night, I felt a nudge to roll away from where I was sleeping, mind you, I was deeply. Moments later (I don’t know how long due to sleep), I rolled and away and only a second after that, the ceiling structure fell right where I was sleeping. Up till now, I don’t know what gave me that nudge. I just know that I’m very grateful for it.

Surviving a poisoning by my stepmother.

List 3 Negative Experiences from your past that have helped to Shape me, but also have given you great compassion for others going through similar circumstances:

Failure to graduate from the University after putting in 8 years of my life.

Not maintaining contact with my Dad before he died, I wasn’t living with him at the time but he was in the hospital for about a week very close to where I was and I failed to go see him. I wish we had that last conversation and I was not able to show him I love him. I sometimes wonder what he must have thought about me.

Hurting a lady that loved me, I still feel very bad whenever I think about it, hoping she’s good now.

Wrapping It Up

The Challenge: Based upon your S.H.A.P.E. Assessment above (the way God wired you), If you knew you couldn’t fail … and ‘lack of money, or time’ was not an obstacle… list your Top 3 Things you would ‘Focus’ your Life on, next to #1 Loving God & #2 Loving Your Neighbor (these would be your ‘3 God-Sized Dreams’ for your life)?

1. My Relationship with GOD

2. My Relationship with Others

  • Putting Your Spouse First
  • Your Kids Second
  • Everyone Else After those

3. Winning at least a soul for Christ before my time on eatg is done.

4. Touching lives, not the type that earns me spotlight but actually having positive impact on people’s lives.

5. Becoming a problem solver in my field of endeavor, not to just be consumer/end user.