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S.H.A.P.E. Assessment Results

Thank you Tommie Midgley for taking the SHAPE Assessment. We encourage you to meet with a Church Leader that you respect, to go over your results, so that they can help you discover a place to serve in the church and/or community, and also to help you fine-tune your 5 Main Focuses/Priorities listed at the bottom of this email under the ‘Wrapping it up’ section. May God Bless You!

[S]piritual Gifts

Here is how your spiritual gifts scored:

Administration

53%

Evangelism

59%

Exhortation/Encouragement

78%

Giving

84%

Mercy Showing

71%

Prophecy

59%

Pastoring/Shepherding

53%

Serving

68%

Teaching

68%

To see descriptions on the Spiritual Gifts and how you can use them to further Christ’s Kingdom on earth, visit this link.

#1 Gift, Giving (84%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
All I have came from God and I feel very blessed he watched over me during stressful times when “wayward” persons took from me wrongfully

#2 Gift, Exhortation/Encouragement (78%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I didn’t have encouragement growing up and as an adult God placed persons in my life showing me I was worthwhile and had much to give and had always given my time, talents and property freely to those in more need than me

#3 Gift, Mercy Showing (71%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I have been through many difficult times and God has been there watching over me and those times and given me an empathy toward others that others don’t “get”

[H]eart

Three things I love to do that bring joy and fulfillment in my life:

1. Do for others making them happy and in return brings joy in my life

2. Arts and crafts with children

3. cooking for others

Who I love to work with most, and the age or type of people:

Any age as long as they recognize my restrictions and easily I get tired and don’t expect more than I am able to give because I will do it rather than say no and will suffer in pain for days afterwards

Church issues, ministries, or possible needs that excite or concern me the most:

Making all feel welcome

*Mark the Top 3 from the list, that Trigger a Passion in You

Drug abuse/recovery
Abuse/violence
Disabilities

[A]bilities

My current vocation:

Homemaker

Other jobs I have experience in:

Administrative, Psychiatric Nurse, Naval Officer, Parent, Spouse, Counseling, SS Teacher

Special talents/skills that I have:

Willingness to help within my physical abilities…can do just about anything

I have taught a class or seminar on:

Nursing

I feel my most valuable personal asset is:

Loyalty

[P]ersonality

The personality traits that best fit me are:

Reserved

Low Risk

Peace Maker

Project Driven

Follower

Team

Routine

1. 1 Likes Control 2 Enthusiastic 3 Sensitive 4 Reserved
2. 1 Firm 2 Energetic 3 Non-Demanding 4 Practical
3. 3 Likes Challenge 1 Promoter 4 Enjoys Routine 2 Factual
4. 4 Problem Solver 3 Mixes Easily 1 Relational 2 Perfectionistic
5. 1 Bold 2 Fun-Loving 4 Thoughtful 3 Detailed
6. 2 Goal Driven 1 Optimistic 4 Patient 3 Inquisitive
7. 1 Strong Willed 2 Motivator 4 Good Listener 3 Accurate
8. 2 Takes Charge 1 Very Verbal 4 Loyal 3 Predictable
9. 4 Determined 2 Popular 1 Dislikes Change 3 Orderly
10. 1 Competitive 3 Group Oriented 4 Sympathetic 2 Analytical
11. 3 Purposeful 2 Inspirational 4 Nurturing 1 Precise
12. 3 Action Oriented 1 Likes Change 4 Peace Maker 2 Scheduled
26 Total 22 Total 40 Total 31 Total

Your Primary was ‘The Retriever’, with your Secondary coming in as ‘The Beaver’, and here are the descriptions of your Personalities, and how they can be used for God

Golden Retriever- Good at making friends. Very loyal. Retriever personalities do not like big changes. They look for security. Can be very sensitive. Very caring. Has deep relationships, but usually only a couple of close friends. Wants to be loved by everyone. Looks for appreciation. Works best in a limited situation with a steady work pattern.

Strength: Accommodating, calm, affirming
Weakness: Indecisive, indifferent, unable to express emotional, too soft on other people
Limitation: Seeing the need to be more assertive, holding others accountable

Beaver- Organized. Beavers think that there is a right way to do everything and they want to do it exactly that way. Beaver personalities are very creative. They desire to solve everything. Desire to take their time and do it right. Beavers do not like sudden changes. They need reassurance.

Strength: High standards, order, respect
Weakness: Unrealistic expectations of self & others, too perfect.
Limitation: Seeing the optimistic side of things, expressing flexibility

[E]xperience

My brief testimony of how I became a Christian

Grew up in the church… Several life experiences where I knew God was beside me

Ministry Experience (Where I have served in the past, if applicable, including ChurchName, City/State, Position, Years Involved):

Avondale Methodist Church-Jacksonville FL children/youth helper
Wildflecken, W Germany – SS teacher
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Ft McClellan AL- SS teacher
Durant FUMC, Durant OK. Youth, SS teacher, Camp Counselor, general church volunteer work

List 3 Positive experiences from the past that made a big impact on who you are today:

Major Coates USA… Believed in me

Commission as a Naval Officer… Given the responsibility of shaping young corpsman

Helping with Camp Sunshine in Anniston AL…summer day camp for severely handicapped children

List 3 Negative Experiences from your past that have helped to Shape me, but also have given you great compassion for others going through similar circumstances:

Two abusive marriages and bad divorces where I lost everything and had to start over…God was always with me…I help d others when I had little to give and God took care of me

losing my daughter

Mean, jealous, greedy people

Wrapping It Up

The Challenge: Based upon your S.H.A.P.E. Assessment above (the way God wired you), If you knew you couldn’t fail … and ‘lack of money, or time’ was not an obstacle… list your Top 3 Things you would ‘Focus’ your Life on, next to #1 Loving God & #2 Loving Your Neighbor (these would be your ‘3 God-Sized Dreams’ for your life)?

1. My Relationship with GOD

2. My Relationship with Others

  • Putting Your Spouse First
  • Your Kids Second
  • Everyone Else After those

3. Become a missionary

4. Counseling young women in shelter

5. Cooking in shelter