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S.H.A.P.E. Assessment Results

Thank you Tonya Reffner for taking the SHAPE Assessment. We encourage you to meet with a Church Leader that you respect, to go over your results, so that they can help you discover a place to serve in the church and/or community, and also to help you fine-tune your 5 Main Focuses/Priorities listed at the bottom of this email under the ‘Wrapping it up’ section. May God Bless You!

[S]piritual Gifts

Here is how your spiritual gifts scored:

Administration

75%

Evangelism

65%

Exhortation/Encouragement

90%

Giving

93%

Mercy Showing

93%

Prophecy

59%

Pastoring/Shepherding

56%

Serving

84%

Teaching

71%

To see descriptions on the Spiritual Gifts and how you can use them to further Christ’s Kingdom on earth, visit this link.

#1 Gift, Giving (93%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I love to help others. I volunteer a lot to help people in need.

#2 Gift, Mercy Showing (93%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I am a nurse. I have a passion to help elderly and mentally ill.

#3 Gift, Exhortation/Encouragement (90%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I love to help and encourage people that need help or lost their way

[H]eart

Three things I love to do that bring joy and fulfillment in my life:

1. I love to help my daughter work with the mentally ill or people that are not as fortunate as me

2. I love to keep my grandchildren and do things with them

3. love to visit old places… homes, antique stores.. I am an old soul

Who I love to work with most, and the age or type of people:

I would love to work with the elderly or mentally ill

Church issues, ministries, or possible needs that excite or concern me the most:

prison ministry, nursing home ministry, shut in ministry, homeless ministry

*Mark the Top 3 from the list, that Trigger a Passion in You

Homelessness
Abuse/violence
Divorce

[A]bilities

My current vocation:

I am a nurse

Other jobs I have experience in:

secretary

Special talents/skills that I have:

never meeting stranger… outgoing

I have taught a class or seminar on:

kidney health (nursing)

I feel my most valuable personal asset is:

I have a outgoing personality

[P]ersonality

The personality traits that best fit me are:

Extrovert

High Risk

Peace Maker

People Driven

Leader

Team

Variety

1. 4 Likes Control 3 Enthusiastic 2 Sensitive 1 Reserved
2. 4 Firm 3 Energetic 1 Non-Demanding 2 Practical
3. 3 Likes Challenge 2 Promoter 4 Enjoys Routine 1 Factual
4. 2 Problem Solver 4 Mixes Easily 4 Relational 1 Perfectionistic
5. 3 Bold 2 Fun-Loving 4 Thoughtful 1 Detailed
6. 4 Goal Driven 3 Optimistic 1 Patient 2 Inquisitive
7. 4 Strong Willed 2 Motivator 3 Good Listener 1 Accurate
8. 4 Takes Charge 3 Very Verbal 2 Loyal 1 Predictable
9. 2 Determined 1 Popular 3 Dislikes Change 4 Orderly
10. 3 Competitive 2 Group Oriented 4 Sympathetic 1 Analytical
11. 2 Purposeful 3 Inspirational 4 Nurturing 1 Precise
12. 3 Action Oriented 1 Likes Change 2 Peace Maker 4 Scheduled
38 Total 29 Total 33 Total 20 Total

Your Primary was ‘The Lion’, with your Secondary coming in as ‘The Retriever’, and here are the descriptions of your Personalities, and how they can be used for God

Lion- This personality likes to lead. The lion is good at making decisions and is very goal-oriented. They enjoy challenges, difficult assignments, and opportunity for advancement. Because lions are thinking of the goal, they can step on people to reach it. Lions can be very aggressive and competitive. Lions must learn not to be too bossy or to take charge in other’s affairs.

Strength: Goal-oriented, strong, direct
Weakness: Argumentative, too dictatorial
Limitation: Doesn’t understand that directness can hurt others, hard time expressing grace

Golden Retriever- Good at making friends. Very loyal. Retriever personalities do not like big changes. They look for security. Can be very sensitive. Very caring. Has deep relationships, but usually only a couple of close friends. Wants to be loved by everyone. Looks for appreciation. Works best in a limited situation with a steady work pattern.

Strength: Accommodating, calm, affirming
Weakness: Indecisive, indifferent, unable to express emotional, too soft on other people
Limitation: Seeing the need to be more assertive, holding others accountable

[E]xperience

My brief testimony of how I became a Christian

I was raised in a church going Baptist family. I accepted the lord at age 10. I have always loved church. I have had ups and downs in my life but have always turned to god.

Ministry Experience (Where I have served in the past, if applicable, including ChurchName, City/State, Position, Years Involved):

First Baptist Tullahoma… taught Sunday School age 2nd grade. 10 yrs attended

Grace Baptist… Helped with a divorced womens class..

Attended church in texas before moving to tenn in 2000

List 3 Positive experiences from the past that made a big impact on who you are today:

I became a nurse when I was 21… I have worked in a doctors office most of my nursing career. same doctor past 16 yrs

I have became a mother of two girls and a step daughter and son.. then became a grammy of two.

I met my husband of 17 yrs. He became a wonderful husband and father to my girls. A good Christian man.

List 3 Negative Experiences from your past that have helped to Shape me, but also have given you great compassion for others going through similar circumstances:

I am divorced from a non Christian man. I married him thinking I could turn him into a Christ follower and was unable to change him. Our marriage did not work.

My grandmother died of cancer. She was a strong influence in my life and I watch cancer take her. She was a strong Christian women.

I moved to Tennessee and left a lot of my family. I became stronger and a more independent person.

Wrapping It Up

The Challenge: Based upon your S.H.A.P.E. Assessment above (the way God wired you), If you knew you couldn’t fail … and ‘lack of money, or time’ was not an obstacle… list your Top 3 Things you would ‘Focus’ your Life on, next to #1 Loving God & #2 Loving Your Neighbor (these would be your ‘3 God-Sized Dreams’ for your life)?

1. My Relationship with GOD

2. My Relationship with Others

  • Putting Your Spouse First
  • Your Kids Second
  • Everyone Else After those

3. Go to Israel with church group

4. love to do prison or mental hospital ministry

5. help with some type of homeless ministry..