vmmills@seu.edu

 

S.H.A.P.E. Assessment Results

Thank you Violet Mills for taking the SHAPE Assessment. We encourage you to meet with a Church Leader that you respect, to go over your results, so that they can help you discover a place to serve in the church and/or community, and also to help you fine-tune your 5 Main Focuses/Priorities listed at the bottom of this email under the ‘Wrapping it up’ section. May God Bless You!

[S]piritual Gifts

Here is how your spiritual gifts scored (in alphabetical order):

Administration

50%

Evangelism

40%

Exhortation/Encouragement

84%

Giving

34%

Mercy Showing

87%

Prophecy

40%

Pastoring/Shepherding

37%

Serving

68%

Teaching

50%

To see descriptions on the Spiritual Gifts and how you can use them to further Christ’s Kingdom on earth, visit this link.

#1 Gift, Mercy Showing (87%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I grew up in a very different environment and was introduced to things I should not have been at a young age. Therefore, I am going into a career to help the less fortunate because I can connect with them and I have experience with it.

#2 Gift, Exhortation/Encouragement (84%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I take care of others and make sure others feel recognized before myself most of the time. This is why I believe I have this gift. I can brighten up someone’s day by just listening to them and let them know that they are okay.

#3 Gift, Serving (68%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I believe I got this gift because I love giving and serving a variety of people from different areas.

[H]eart

Three things I love to do that bring joy and fulfillment in my life:

1. Playing volleyball.

2. Spending time with loved ones.

3. Going on hikes and exploring nature.

Who I love to work with most, and the age or type of people:

I love to work with my friends and younger family members. My friends are between the ages of 25-29 and my family members are around 30-37.

Church issues, ministries, or possible needs that excite or concern me the most:

I want to build more programs for addicts to attend church. I would be in charge of transportation and going with them to church, but just giving everyone a option to go to church if they want.

*Mark the Top 3 from the list, that Trigger a Passion in You

Drug abuse/recovery
Abuse/violence
At-risk children

[A]bilities

My current vocation:

Customer service representative.

Other jobs I have experience in:

mentoring middle school age kids, volleyball coach, retail, DSP.

Special talents/skills that I have:

I am certified to take care of kids with mental illnesses or physical issues. I also was a head volleyball coach and was in charge of the filing as well as coaching the girls.

I have taught a class or seminar on:

volleyball.

I feel my most valuable personal asset is:

Giving to others and being able to mentor kids in need.

[P]ersonality

The personality traits that best fit me are:

50-50 Extrovert/Reserved

50-50 High/Low Risk

Peace Maker

People Driven

50-50 Follower/Leader

Team

Routine

1. 3 Likes Control 1 Enthusiastic 4 Sensitive 2 Reserved
2. 2 Firm 1 Energetic 4 Non-Demanding 3 Practical
3. 2 Likes Challenge 1 Promoter 4 Enjoys Routine 3 Factual
4. 4 Problem Solver 1 Mixes Easily 2 Relational 3 Perfectionistic
5. 1 Bold 4 Fun-Loving 3 Thoughtful 2 Detailed
6. 4 Goal Driven 2 Optimistic 3 Patient 1 Inquisitive
7. 1 Strong Willed 3 Motivator 4 Good Listener 2 Accurate
8. 2 Takes Charge 1 Very Verbal 4 Loyal 3 Predictable
9. 4 Determined 3 Popular 1 Dislikes Change 2 Orderly
10. 3 Competitive 1 Group Oriented 4 Sympathetic 2 Analytical
11. 3 Purposeful 1 Inspirational 4 Nurturing 2 Precise
12. 3 Action Oriented 2 Likes Change 4 Peace Maker 1 Scheduled
32 Total 21 Total 41 Total 26 Total

Your Primary was ‘The Retriever’, with your Secondary coming in as ‘The Lion’, and here are the descriptions of your Personalities, and how they can be used for God

Golden Retriever- Good at making friends. Very loyal. Retriever personalities do not like big changes. They look for security. Can be very sensitive. Very caring. Has deep relationships, but usually only a couple of close friends. Wants to be loved by everyone. Looks for appreciation. Works best in a limited situation with a steady work pattern.

Strength: Accommodating, calm, affirming
Weakness: Indecisive, indifferent, unable to express emotional, too soft on other people
Limitation: Seeing the need to be more assertive, holding others accountable

Lion- This personality likes to lead. The lion is good at making decisions and is very goal-oriented. They enjoy challenges, difficult assignments, and opportunity for advancement. Because lions are thinking of the goal, they can step on people to reach it. Lions can be very aggressive and competitive. Lions must learn not to be too bossy or to take charge in other’s affairs.

Strength: Goal-oriented, strong, direct
Weakness: Argumentative, too dictatorial
Limitation: Doesn’t understand that directness can hurt others, hard time expressing grace

[E]xperience

My brief testimony of how I became a Christian

I had a rough upbringing and had to make a choice between going to college or staying on the streets doing not so good things. So, I decided to come to New Hope Christian College and had a lot of people that loved me and introduced me to God. I was not receptive at first but eventually started listening and was baptized in April of 2020 on Easter.

Ministry Experience (Where I have served in the past, if applicable, including ChurchName, City/State, Position, Years Involved):

Westside Church, Eugene Oregon, 1 year

List 3 Positive experiences from the past that made a big impact on who you are today:

Coming to New Hope Christian College turned my life around and helped guide me in a positive way.

Participating in volleyball my entire life has helped me always have something that I love, even if people keep abandoning me.

Being introduced to friends that care for me and showing me that the way I was living was not right.

List 3 Negative Experiences from your past that have helped to Shape me, but also have given you great compassion for others going through similar circumstances:

Becoming a prostitute has showed me that I never want to go back there again.

Becoming addicted to drugs has shaped me as a person as well.

Loosing people I thought were going to be in my life forever was heart breaking and I went through a bunch of suicide thoughts, but ended up overcoming them and becoming stronger.

Wrapping It Up

The Challenge: Based upon your S.H.A.P.E. Assessment above (the way God wired you), If you knew you couldn’t fail … and ‘lack of money, or time’ was not an obstacle… list your Top 3 Things you would ‘Focus’ your Life on, next to #1 Loving God & #2 Loving Your Neighbor (these would be your ‘3 God-Sized Dreams’ for your life)?

1. My Relationship with GOD

2. My Relationship with Others

  • Putting Your Spouse First
  • Your Kids Second
  • Everyone Else After those

3. Becoming a drug and alcohol counselor and reaching out to those who are imprisoned.

4. Go on missionary trips.

5. Giving back to the church regulary.