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S.H.A.P.E. Assessment Results

Thank you Wendi Frohna for taking the SHAPE Assessment. We encourage you to meet with a Church Leader that you respect, to go over your results, so that they can help you discover a place to serve in the church and/or community, and also to help you fine-tune your 5 Main Focuses/Priorities listed at the bottom of this email under the ‘Wrapping it up’ section. May God Bless You!

[S]piritual Gifts

Here is how your spiritual gifts scored:

Administration

37%

Evangelism

46%

Exhortation/Encouragement

31%

Giving

81%

Mercy Showing

53%

Prophecy

18%

Pastoring/Shepherding

31%

Serving

65%

Teaching

37%

To see descriptions on the Spiritual Gifts and how you can use them to further Christ’s Kingdom on earth, visit this link.

#1 Gift, Giving (81%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I know that what I have is from the Lord. For 25 years I have faithfully tithed and given offerings above and not ever do I think what I could have done with that $. I also enjoy giving of my time serving. Oh look – that’s next.

#2 Gift, Serving (65%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
God gave me a servant’s heart and a desire to be in the background. While I can lead, I find more joy in just getting whatever needs to be done, done.

#3 Gift, Mercy Showing (53%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
God needs people to demonstrate His mercy. Not sure why I have it, or how it developed.

[H]eart

Three things I love to do that bring joy and fulfillment in my life:

1. Hanging out with Greg.

2. Investing time teaching/raising my children.

3. Hanging out with friends – hearing about their lives.

Who I love to work with most, and the age or type of people:

I enjoy teenage girls and the elderly.

Church issues, ministries, or possible needs that excite or concern me the most:

Building relationships with the under resourced. Working with adoption or foster care.

*Mark the Top 3 from the list, that Trigger a Passion in You

Marriage/family issues
Poverty/hunger
At-risk children

[A]bilities

My current vocation:

Administrative role at Park University

Other jobs I have experience in:

Administration, Teaching

Special talents/skills that I have:

Speaking ability, motivator

I have taught a class or seminar on:

Speaking, Organization,

I feel my most valuable personal asset is:

My ability to build relationships with others.

[P]ersonality

The personality traits that best fit me are:

Extrovert

50-50 High/Low Risk

Peace Maker

People Driven

50-50 Follower/Leader

Team

Variety

1. 3 Likes Control 4 Enthusiastic 2 Sensitive 1 Reserved
2. 1 Firm 3 Energetic 2 Non-Demanding 4 Practical
3. 3 Likes Challenge 1 Promoter 4 Enjoys Routine 2 Factual
4. 2 Problem Solver 1 Mixes Easily 4 Relational 3 Perfectionistic
5. 1 Bold 2 Fun-Loving 3 Thoughtful 4 Detailed
6. 2 Goal Driven 4 Optimistic 4 Patient 1 Inquisitive
7. 1 Strong Willed 2 Motivator 3 Good Listener 4 Accurate
8. 4 Takes Charge 1 Very Verbal 3 Loyal 2 Predictable
9. 3 Determined 1 Popular 2 Dislikes Change 4 Orderly
10. 2 Competitive 4 Group Oriented 1 Sympathetic 3 Analytical
11. 3 Purposeful 1 Inspirational 4 Nurturing 2 Precise
12. 1 Action Oriented 2 Likes Change 3 Peace Maker 4 Scheduled
26 Total 26 Total 35 Total 34 Total

Your Primary was ‘The Retriever’, with your Secondary coming in as ‘The Beaver’, and here are the descriptions of your Personalities, and how they can be used for God

Golden Retriever- Good at making friends. Very loyal. Retriever personalities do not like big changes. They look for security. Can be very sensitive. Very caring. Has deep relationships, but usually only a couple of close friends. Wants to be loved by everyone. Looks for appreciation. Works best in a limited situation with a steady work pattern.

Strength: Accommodating, calm, affirming
Weakness: Indecisive, indifferent, unable to express emotional, too soft on other people
Limitation: Seeing the need to be more assertive, holding others accountable

Beaver- Organized. Beavers think that there is a right way to do everything and they want to do it exactly that way. Beaver personalities are very creative. They desire to solve everything. Desire to take their time and do it right. Beavers do not like sudden changes. They need reassurance.

Strength: High standards, order, respect
Weakness: Unrealistic expectations of self & others, too perfect.
Limitation: Seeing the optimistic side of things, expressing flexibility

[E]xperience

My brief testimony of how I became a Christian

I had always known about Christ having grown up in church. When Greg accepted Christ I saw a change in him that was positive. I chose to trust Christ with my life – my future and was baptized. It wasn’t until ~2 years later that I fully understood Christ’s sacrifice for my sin. It was then I felt saved and a full follower of Christ.

Ministry Experience (Where I have served in the past, if applicable, including ChurchName, City/State, Position, Years Involved):

PVBC – Student Ministry (last 3 years), Coffee/Guest Services (2 years), Event planning (3 years)

Cornerstone Community Church – AWANA, children’s church, leading ladies studies (4 years we were there)

Church on Rush Creek – Children’s Ministry – 4th grade girls (3 years)

List 3 Positive experiences from the past that made a big impact on who you are today:

Moving away from family and moving in general – learned who I was away from them

Adopting children – inviting them into my life and home

Having great work success from early years to present

List 3 Negative Experiences from your past that have helped to Shape me, but also have given you great compassion for others going through similar circumstances:

Work situations – feeling like I failed at teaching, struggling to find work when we moved to new cities,

Infertility

Wrapping It Up

The Challenge: Based upon your S.H.A.P.E. Assessment above (the way God wired you), If you knew you couldn’t fail … and ‘lack of money, or time’ was not an obstacle… list your Top 3 Things you would ‘Focus’ your Life on, next to #1 Loving God & #2 Loving Your Neighbor (these would be your ‘3 God-Sized Dreams’ for your life)?

1. My Relationship with GOD

2. My Relationship with Others

  • Putting Your Spouse First
  • Your Kids Second
  • Everyone Else After those

3. Live in a place that was uncomfortable, but where I could share God’s love

4. Parent more children that need homes

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