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S.H.A.P.E. Assessment Results

Thank you Barb Pinkelman for taking the SHAPE Assessment. We encourage you to meet with a Church Leader that you respect, to go over your results, so that they can help you discover a place to serve in the church and/or community, and also to help you fine-tune your 5 Main Focuses/Priorities listed at the bottom of this email under the ‘Wrapping it up’ section. May God Bless You!

[S]piritual Gifts

Here is how your spiritual gifts scored (in alphabetical order):

Administration

75%

Evangelism

65%

Exhortation/Encouragement

84%

Giving

62%

Mercy Showing

62%

Prophecy

59%

Pastoring/Shepherding

46%

Serving

71%

Teaching

62%

To see descriptions on the Spiritual Gifts and how you can use them to further Christ’s Kingdom on earth, visit this link.

#1 Gift, Exhortation/Encouragement (84%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I have always been told by others that I am a great encourager. God has blessed me with a positive outlook.

#2 Gift, Administration (75%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
This is my job. I am an assistant so it is my comfort zone.

#3 Gift, Serving (71%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I feel it is much easier to give than receive and my love language is words of affirmation and I receive that when I serve or encourage others.

[H]eart

Three things I love to do that bring joy and fulfillment in my life:

1. Worship

2. Spending time with family and friends

3. Walking the beach or spending time in nature-traveling and exploring

Who I love to work with most, and the age or type of people:

Married couples, men and women 40-70

Church issues, ministries, or possible needs that excite or concern me the most:

I enjoy hospitality, cooking, outreach

*Mark the Top 3 from the list, that Trigger a Passion in You

Marriage/family issues
Parenting
Poverty/hunger

[A]bilities

My current vocation:

Assistant to real estate agent

Other jobs I have experience in:

Respiratory therapist, research, candy and cupcake maker

Special talents/skills that I have:

Cooking, decorating, planning

I have taught a class or seminar on:

Marriage

I feel my most valuable personal asset is:

Encouraging others to be their best

[P]ersonality

The personality traits that best fit me are:

50-50 Extrovert/Reserved

50-50 High/Low Risk

Peace Maker

50-50 People/Project Driven

50-50 Follower/Leader

50-50 Routine/Variety

1. 2 Likes Control 4 Enthusiastic 3 Sensitive 1 Reserved
2. 2 Firm 3 Energetic 1 Non-Demanding 4 Practical
3. 4 Likes Challenge 2 Promoter 3 Enjoys Routine 1 Factual
4. 4 Problem Solver 3 Mixes Easily 2 Relational 1 Perfectionistic
5. 2 Bold 4 Fun-Loving 3 Thoughtful 1 Detailed
6. 1 Goal Driven 3 Optimistic 4 Patient 2 Inquisitive
7. 2 Strong Willed 4 Motivator 3 Good Listener 1 Accurate
8. 3 Takes Charge 2 Very Verbal 4 Loyal 1 Predictable
9. 4 Determined 3 Popular 1 Dislikes Change 2 Orderly
10. 1 Competitive 2 Group Oriented 4 Sympathetic 3 Analytical
11. 3 Purposeful 2 Inspirational 4 Nurturing 1 Precise
12. 1 Action Oriented 2 Likes Change 4 Peace Maker 3 Scheduled
29 Total 33 Total 36 Total 21 Total

Your Primary was ‘The Retriever’, with your Secondary coming in as ‘The Otter’, and here are the descriptions of your Personalities, and how they can be used for God

Golden Retriever- Good at making friends. Very loyal. Retriever personalities do not like big changes. They look for security. Can be very sensitive. Very caring. Has deep relationships, but usually only a couple of close friends. Wants to be loved by everyone. Looks for appreciation. Works best in a limited situation with a steady work pattern.

Strength: Accommodating, calm, affirming
Weakness: Indecisive, indifferent, unable to express emotional, too soft on other people
Limitation: Seeing the need to be more assertive, holding others accountable

Otter- Otters are very social creature. Otter personalities love people. They enjoys being popular and influencing and motivating others. Otter can sometimes be hurt when people do not like them. Otter personalities usually have lots of friends, but not deep relationships. They love to goof-off. (They are notorious for messy rooms.) Otters like to hurry and finish jobs. (Jobs are not often done well.) The otter personality is like Tigger in Winnie The Pooh.

Strength: People person, open, positive
Weakness: Talks too much, too permissive
Limitation: Remembering past commitments, follow through with discipline

[E]xperience

My brief testimony of how I became a Christian

Grew up in a Christian home. Experienced a retreat in 8th grade and came to know Jesus definitely then recommitted my life to Jesus when I was 37 with baptism. I grew up Catholic but left when I was 32.

Ministry Experience (Where I have served in the past, if applicable, including ChurchName, City/State, Position, Years Involved):

Planned a marriage retreat -grace United Methodist Perrysburg, Ohio

Lead Thanksgiving Church wide dinner with my husband. Feed 500

List 3 Positive experiences from the past that made a big impact on who you are today:

Receiving undeserving grace from a friend

Taking care of my in laws

Moving to SC

List 3 Negative Experiences from your past that have helped to Shape me, but also have given you great compassion for others going through similar circumstances:

Dealing with a highly opinionated mother who was never satisfied

Having a daughter who was touch inappropriately by a family friend

Having parents who are committed to each other but didn’t have the best relationship.

Wrapping It Up

The Challenge: Based upon your S.H.A.P.E. Assessment above (the way God wired you), If you knew you couldn’t fail … and ‘lack of money, or time’ was not an obstacle… list your Top 3 Things you would ‘Focus’ your Life on, next to #1 Loving God & #2 Loving Your Neighbor (these would be your ‘3 God-Sized Dreams’ for your life)?

1. My Relationship with GOD

2. My Relationship with Others

  • Putting Your Spouse First
  • Your Kids Second
  • Everyone Else After those

3. Feed the hunger

4. Impact a community

5. Mission trip