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S.H.A.P.E. Assessment Results

Thank you Heather Coley for taking the SHAPE Assessment. We encourage you to meet with a Church Leader that you respect, to go over your results, so that they can help you discover a place to serve in the church and/or community, and also to help you fine-tune your 5 Main Focuses/Priorities listed at the bottom of this email under the ‘Wrapping it up’ section. May God Bless You!

[S]piritual Gifts

Here is how your spiritual gifts scored:

Administration

53%

Evangelism

43%

Exhortation/Encouragement

53%

Giving

21%

Mercy Showing

18%

Prophecy

46%

Pastoring/Shepherding

28%

Serving

65%

Teaching

71%

To see descriptions on the Spiritual Gifts and how you can use them to further Christ’s Kingdom on earth, visit this link.

#1 Gift, Teaching (71%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I want others to not miss out on opportunities that I may have, to show them things that I have missed along the way. Helping them grow and take advantage of every opportunity

#2 Gift, Serving (65%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I love to see others happy, I am always willing to help and do something differently if it means other people will find joy out of it.

#3 Gift, Administration (53%)

This gift’s evident in my life in the following ways:
I like things organized and I like to manage time and resources; something I think I am good at.

[H]eart

Three things I love to do that bring joy and fulfillment in my life:

1. Talking to others about their problems and helping them find a solution

2. Parenting, helping a child grow

3. Reading it is a chance to get a ideas and escape in to another world and learn from those characters trial and tribulations

Who I love to work with most, and the age or type of people:

Children and mid 20s-40, the type of person I enjoy working with is someone I can have a good conversation with but equally share our work and complete a successful task together.

Church issues, ministries, or possible needs that excite or concern me the most:

I love the idea that Eastside has with the backpack ministry where we are giving to students something that they are lacking in hopes that they will share the good word with their family and friends.

*Mark the Top 3 from the list, that Trigger a Passion in You

Marriage/family issues
Parenting
At-risk children

[A]bilities

My current vocation:

Member Services and Educator

Other jobs I have experience in:

Sales and Management, Administrative Assistant

Special talents/skills that I have:

public speaking and relating to others, empathy

I have taught a class or seminar on:

I feel my most valuable personal asset is:

I ability to relate to others

[P]ersonality

The personality traits that best fit me are:

Reserved

50-50 High/Low Risk

Peace Maker

People Driven

50-50 Follower/Leader

Routine

1. 4 Likes Control 1 Enthusiastic 3 Sensitive 2 Reserved
2. 1 Firm 3 Energetic 4 Non-Demanding 2 Practical
3. 1 Likes Challenge 3 Promoter 4 Enjoys Routine 2 Factual
4. 3 Problem Solver 4 Mixes Easily 2 Relational 1 Perfectionistic
5. 1 Bold 4 Fun-Loving 3 Thoughtful 2 Detailed
6. 3 Goal Driven 4 Optimistic 2 Patient 1 Inquisitive
7. 4 Strong Willed 3 Motivator 2 Good Listener 1 Accurate
8. 2 Takes Charge 1 Very Verbal 4 Loyal 3 Predictable
9. 4 Determined 1 Popular 2 Dislikes Change 3 Orderly
10. 3 Competitive 1 Group Oriented 4 Sympathetic 2 Analytical
11. 3 Purposeful 2 Inspirational 4 Nurturing 1 Precise
12. 2 Action Oriented 1 Likes Change 4 Peace Maker 3 Scheduled
30 Total 28 Total 38 Total 21 Total

Your Primary was ‘The Retriever’, with your Secondary coming in as ‘The Lion’, and here are the descriptions of your Personalities, and how they can be used for God

Golden Retriever- Good at making friends. Very loyal. Retriever personalities do not like big changes. They look for security. Can be very sensitive. Very caring. Has deep relationships, but usually only a couple of close friends. Wants to be loved by everyone. Looks for appreciation. Works best in a limited situation with a steady work pattern.

Strength: Accommodating, calm, affirming
Weakness: Indecisive, indifferent, unable to express emotional, too soft on other people
Limitation: Seeing the need to be more assertive, holding others accountable

Lion- This personality likes to lead. The lion is good at making decisions and is very goal-oriented. They enjoy challenges, difficult assignments, and opportunity for advancement. Because lions are thinking of the goal, they can step on people to reach it. Lions can be very aggressive and competitive. Lions must learn not to be too bossy or to take charge in other’s affairs.

Strength: Goal-oriented, strong, direct
Weakness: Argumentative, too dictatorial
Limitation: Doesn’t understand that directness can hurt others, hard time expressing grace

[E]xperience

My brief testimony of how I became a Christian

An up and down road, I grew up in a Christian school and church but when my family moved I fell off of my belief. Once my dad past away I went down a dark path and then became extremely strong in my faith but then went to college and fell off again, I have now beginning to grow what I believe is a true and strong relationship with God for what genuinely feels like the first time. It is amazing

Ministry Experience (Where I have served in the past, if applicable, including ChurchName, City/State, Position, Years Involved):

List 3 Positive experiences from the past that made a big impact on who you are today:

When my grandparents first took me to church with them, not so much for the fellowship but so I could be reintroduced to the faith

Moving to Kentucky on my own and being able to break from any bad and not ideal situations for me mentally. Gaining my own independence

Having my child and becoming a mother, learning the love that I have for him gave me a taste for how God loves us. Gives perspective to the idea of a good father.

List 3 Negative Experiences from your past that have helped to Shape me, but also have given you great compassion for others going through similar circumstances:

Growing up with a mentally ill mother and having to deal with her leaving and emotional issues

My father passing away and dealing with the familial after math and drama that came associated with it.

My family questioning my life and the decisions I have made, it does still cause doubts but I am not taking my decisions I make lightly and I wish they would understand.

Wrapping It Up

The Challenge: Based upon your S.H.A.P.E. Assessment above (the way God wired you), If you knew you couldn’t fail … and ‘lack of money, or time’ was not an obstacle… list your Top 3 Things you would ‘Focus’ your Life on, next to #1 Loving God & #2 Loving Your Neighbor (these would be your ‘3 God-Sized Dreams’ for your life)?

1. My Relationship with GOD

2. My Relationship with Others

  • Putting Your Spouse First
  • Your Kids Second
  • Everyone Else After those

3. To help students understand what they want and are called to do in life, show them it’s okay to have obstacles

4. become debt free, purchase a house and set aside money for Mason’s education

5. have a wedding that we can afford and are happy with and having both sides of our family get along in a loving way.